Living With Kids: Michelle Turchini

March 25, 2014

By Gabrielle.

As Michelle describes it, she’s been living a semi-permanent life for the past eight years. Since she and her husband have added three daughters – four year old twins and a two-and-a-half year old – they’ve moved country three times to Hong Kong, Australia, and California, moved house five times, and completely remodeled their new home that we’re touring today. Whew!

Luckily, it looks like Michelle and her family have finally found home. And oh my…it’s a gorgeous spot. Please enjoy the beauty, Friends!

Q: Let’s meet your sweet family!

A: There’s my husband and I, who met as design students 16 years ago in Sydney, and our three little girls, twins aged four, and their little sister who’s two-and-a-half. That’s right: we went from a happy couple to a family of five in 18 months!

I’m a freelance creative director, blogger, and full-time mom (no URL for this one!). My husband also works in the design industry, which is great as we have a lot of shared interests, and not so great as it means we have to display his vintage appliance collection around the house.

Q: How did this house become yours?

A: Over the last eight years we have lived a semi-permanent life, following jobs in Hong Kong, Australia, and now San Francisco, which is both thrilling and unsettling. My heart gets confused as to where ‘home’ really is.

When we relocated to San Francisco we were both itching to create a real home and buy some furniture. We saw this house three times, each time with an emphatic ‘No,’ and possibly some folded arms, eye rolling, and huffing from me, as it needed a lot of work. With a new job for my husband and three kids under age of two crawling around our feet, a big remodeling job just didn’t sound like something we could take on.

But after living in temporary accommodation for eight months we just wanted to settle in, so we decided it would be worth it to make this house truly ours. The house had great bones, was perfectly located and really, as weird as it sounds, we do love renovating. However, living upstairs with three babies with major work going on downstairs is not something I’d recommend unless you really, really love renovating!

Q: What are the things that make you love where you live?

A: I feel like I landed in the most delightfully perfect suburban setting. We often joke that we live on the set of The Wonder Years. It’s sunny nearly every day, we can walk or bike to everything we need and more, there are lots of parks and open spaces, and there’s even a tiny farm with a cow and behind our house. Yet we’re 25 minutes from San Francisco. But the best parts of my neighborhood are my neighbors. I am constantly amazed at how welcoming and friendly people are.

Q: Tell us about the other places you lived and what you loved about each of them in terms of how kid-friendly they were.

A: For five years we lived in a small apartment on the 67 floor near Hong Kong Harbor. That’s pretty high up! I still miss the energy and excitement of living right in the middle of the city, and there’s no other place in the world quite like it. Whilst Hong Kong high-rises don’t exactly conjure ideas of kid-friendly spaces, in fact, it felt like kids are very welcome everywhere. It’s very normal to see a large family eating lunch and hanging out in a restaurant, with babies sleeping and toddlers playing. However, it was very hard getting a double stroller down the crowded street! I always needed someone else to come with me so we could carry the twins in Baby Bjorns.

Australia has these amazing designated wide parking spaces for parents with strollers; it’s a little thing, but so thoughtful, practical, and much safer. Yes, Australia has a lot of beautiful scenery, great lifestyle, and wonderful people, but the parking spaces! Man, I miss those!

Q: You completely remodeled since moving in your home. Tell us about that. How did you settle on decor and colors and materials during your remodel? What were your inspirations, and how did you narrow all the options down?

A: After living in small apartments where I stuck to neutral colour schemes to try and make spaces seem larger, I knew I wanted a colourful house that seemed bright, happy, and fun. I also knew I wanted to use white as my background colour, so we have a white kitchen and a white sofa, white walls, etc. I know people think white is impractical with kids but I’m so glad I didn’t listen. Instead I have been careful with my material choices. There’s not much that can’t be wiped down, so it’s actually all very kid friendly.

I think it’s very easy to feel overwhelmed by choices when remodeling and decorating. I like to form a strong vision in my head and then measure every choice against that. Does this fit into the ultimate vision? If the answer isn’t an absolute yes, then it’s not right.

My husband is also big on building prototypes. He’ll make a cardboard dining table or masking-tape light fixture to see the dimensions in the space. Once we had taped up an aluminum foil mock-up of a mirror we were thinking of purchasing, and friends came over and assumed it was an art piece…uh-huh!

Q: Three girls in three countries in three years! Can you tell us about your experience with other countries’ pre-natal and delivery practices?

A: I am a major fan of mangoes, and during the years we lived in Hong Kong I made it my mission to eat as many mangoes as I could, just because I could! But according to traditional Chinese medicine, mangoes are a bit ‘heaty’ so pregnant women shouldn’t eat them. After giving up soft cheeses, deli meats, wine, salads, seafood, blah, blah, blah on the endless list, there was no way I was going to ditch my mango habit. I would sit at my desk at work and try to look as inconspicuous as a very tall, massively pregnant western woman in a room full of petite, slender Chinese people could possibly look, and surreptitiously slurp mango spears. My work colleagues must have thought I was so weird.

We were in Australia when I found out I was pregnant with my third, and we thought we were moving to San Francisco within a few months so the baby would be born in the USA. In Sydney you need to book your place in hospital as soon as you’re pregnant to ensure there’s space for you when the time comes. I didn’t make a booking, and then our move to the USA was pushed back, and I had a huge FREAK OUT over the thought of not being able to go to any hospital nearby and having a baby on the sidewalk outside. Possibly in the Parents with Prams parking space.

I find basic organization of paperwork both tedious and stressful at most times, but getting all the paperwork in place for citizenship, passports, visas, vaccinations, finding new doctors, and learning new healthcare and insurance systems was very time consuming and overwhelming. I don’t know how parents who move internationally often manage to do it. Not many people are impressed by other’s knowledge of bureaucracy, but I am! There’s a special place in my heart for people who go on forums and share what they know.

Q: When does your home work best?

A: Without a doubt the room that gets the most use is our open kitchen/living room. It has three skylights, windows on all walls, and is always a lovely light-filled space, plus it opens out to our sunny backyard. Although I had originally planned to have a separate office, instead I have a built-in desk for my computer so I can work and watch the girls play.

There are also no fewer than five different dining spaces, which should give you an indication of what we like to do the most: cook and eat! We have a lot of houseguests, so our home is often full of people, and there’s nothing we love more than hosting an impromptu dinner for friends.

I also love our big open rooms. For parties it’s so fun to move the furniture around to create a giant dining area, or make new play spaces for kids, or clustering all the armchairs around the TV and trying to get our American friends to watch Australian Rules Football. They love it when we do that…I think.

Q: What memories do you hope with all your heart that your girls take from this home and from their childhoods? What do you hope they remember specifically about the kind of mom you’re trying to be for them?

A: Being a mom has made me realize how much of my parenting mimics my own childhood, and that I’m using the skills I learnt from my mother, that she learnt from her mother, who learnt from her mother and all the mothers that came before. And so, I would be hugely flattered if at some point in their grown-up lives my children rolled their eyes, groaned, and complained that they were turning into me!

Q: What has been your favorite part of living with your own kids? What has surprised you the most about being a mom? What do you already miss as they get older?

A: I love the cuddles and kisses, I hope they never dry up. I love it when they climb onto my lap. I love the chubby thighs and round bellies. I miss rocking a baby to sleep in the peace of the early morning when it feels like we’re the only people awake. I love being able to make things better with a kiss. I also love it when they can remember where they put their other shoe.

Q: Please finish the sentence: I wish someone had told me…

A: That when you’re a mother, you suddenly have a camaraderie with other mothers. I feel like being a mum has suddenly gained me access to an insiders’ club. I can talk to any woman of any age who has a child, and know that she too feels that depth of emotion, and that is enough of a shared bond to put us on the same team.

There should be some kind of super-hero League of Moms, innocuous in their mom-jeans and mini-vans by day, and pulling out some fierce lioness skills by night. They would be a force to be reckoned with!

Also, Mother’s Day has changed from a stupid commercialized day that I didn’t really pay much attention to, to suddenly being a profoundly moving day. Actually, I find many things suddenly profoundly moving…there are tears during ads for fabric softener! It doesn’t take much!

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Michelle, you are so right: adding kids to the mix makes everything a little more profound and tear-worthy. Who doesn’t cry during the P&G Olympic commercials? Thank you so much for escorting us gorgeously around your home.

Friends, there are some pretty inspiring and rather daring color ideas in Michelle’s home, but it all looks subtle and quiet amid the strength of the white backdrop. Which color or which room is tempting you to the paint store? Mine might very well be the master bedroom blue with those vibrant pops of red. Or maybe the inky dining room. Or maybe…

P.S. – Are you interested in sharing your own home with us? Just send me a note! It’s a lot of fun…I promise! Take a peek at all the homes in my Living With Kids series here.

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1 Amy3 March 25, 2014 at 10:26 am

I love that dark dining room. So pretty!

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2 Kendra March 25, 2014 at 10:43 am

I loved what Michelle said about having an instant camaraderie with other mothers – that surprised me, too. Suddenly I’m able to strike up conversations with mother everywhere, which can be very sweet and heart-warming.

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3 Rachelle March 25, 2014 at 10:56 am

I love the bench withstand he booster seats

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4 Elizabeth March 25, 2014 at 10:56 am

I LOVE this home, her insights, and, ahem, the stain of the wood floors. Could you share info. about this floor color, please? Many thanks from a mama going through a reno with two little ones–can’t imagine doing it with three kids or after two additional moves.

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5 Michelle March 25, 2014 at 2:33 pm

I’m sorry I don’t have a name for the floor stain apart from ‘medium brown’ and that it looked like it was in a large white tin! Choosing a stain color is so hard, good luck!

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6 Elizabeth March 25, 2014 at 9:00 pm

Well, now I have some inspiration. Thanks. “Medium brown” it is.

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7 Jsbyers March 25, 2014 at 11:00 am

I don’t know where to start. So many beautiful things I love about this home. Thank you for sharing.

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8 Faith March 25, 2014 at 11:18 am

Lovely home. I loved what you said about being able to talk to other moms.

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9 ally March 25, 2014 at 11:26 am

Oh my, what a lovely, lovely home! Am dying to know the source for the sweet little booster seats if you have a minute, Michelle–and congrats on making such a beautiful space for your beautiful family!

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10 PAppel March 25, 2014 at 12:36 pm

Souce for the light and artwork in the twins room please. Beautiful home but everything about that room is to amazing, the ceiling light, the artwork, the nightstand and beds.
Thank you!

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11 Michelle March 26, 2014 at 9:29 am

Thanks so much! The light is from Ikea, total bargain. The Yoshimoto Nara painting is a reproduction, I imagine you could get a poster from MoMA

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12 Zondo March 25, 2014 at 12:38 pm

I’ve known Michelle and her husband for quite awhile. They are incredibly smart, talented and stylish people . This house is only a small part of their amazing talent. Well done for finding and featuring this beautiful home. Those kids will have great memories growing up in such a welcoming and happy environment .

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13 Becki March 25, 2014 at 12:42 pm

So pretty! I think Michelle has created a beautiful and well functioning home. I completely agree with what she wrote about paperwork and bureaucracy. It is the worst and most time consuming part of moving every time, especially internationally. My most recent move was local, and it was SO easy. We just moved our stuff from one house to another.

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14 Emme March 25, 2014 at 12:54 pm

I love it! And, I wish I could have that much beautiful, natural light in my home!

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15 Emme March 25, 2014 at 12:55 pm

By the way, I believe the booster seats are OXO Tot Seedling Youth Booster Seats in taupe. They are about $30 on Amazon!

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16 karen March 25, 2014 at 12:59 pm

Loved your comment about the parking spaces. Shopping /parking with my daughter Rachel and her baby, Taylor, was a breeze. So much room!
Cheers, Karen, Newcastle NSW

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17 Christopher Denise March 25, 2014 at 1:18 pm

Fantastic house-love the design and color decisions.
These are fantastic toddler beds. May I ask where you found them?

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18 Michelle March 25, 2014 at 2:35 pm

The toddler beds are Leander, they are beautiful!

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19 Jane March 25, 2014 at 1:41 pm

Ooh, what a gorgeous house! Love it!

Also, what are those booster seats? My kiddo hates the high-chair, so we’re looking for something similar.

-j.

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20 Sherri March 25, 2014 at 1:43 pm

I adore this space / home! Everything about it is just fantastic. Taking notes now on this comfy, stylish place :).

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21 senta March 25, 2014 at 1:47 pm

I love the booster seats on the benches at the dining room table.
Are these custom or is this a product I can find somewhere?

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22 Michelle March 25, 2014 at 2:38 pm

They are OXO Tot Booster seats, easy to buy online!

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23 hollee March 25, 2014 at 2:10 pm

Where is the arc lamp over the sofa from. I love it!

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24 Kristen N. March 25, 2014 at 2:21 pm

What a wonderful sense of style you have, Michelle. My husband and I are building a home and I plan on copying your “graffiti” wall in the kids’ bathroom. I arrange my books by color, too! This drives my husband crazy. You need an Excel chart to understand his bookshelf arrangement (which CANNOT contain any artifacts – it’s for books only!).

Thanks for sharing your lovely home!

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25 Vanessa March 25, 2014 at 4:25 pm

Hi Michelle, what a privilege to be taken on such personal tour of your wonderful home and life in San Fran. What an amazing place to nourish and nurture your family. Of course, I would have expected nothing less from you and Ian. Your flair and sense of style shines through everything you do. I only hope we can visit you one day.

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26 mark March 25, 2014 at 4:27 pm

I’ve known Michelle and her husband for quite a while, and they are incredibly talented, intelligent and stylish designers. Plus the element of fun and quirkiness is always in everything they do. Well done ‘youse’ two (very Australian vernacular) .. lovely home. What a great place to grow up in. Nothing surprising there… xx

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27 Lenora March 25, 2014 at 5:53 pm

Mind if I ask what neighborhood / city you live in? I have friends moving to the area and what you described sounds like a dream!

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28 Laura March 25, 2014 at 9:17 pm

I’m in love with the sofas! Can you share sourcing for them? I’m in the middle of a reno myself, and I can’t seem to find any that I really like.

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29 Michelle March 26, 2014 at 9:42 am

The grey sofa is the Chester from West Elm. The white sofa is a leather Karlstad from Ikea. It takes a beating everyday from my kids – they jump on it, climb all over it, rip the cushions off and throw them around, etc and it still looks good, I highly recommend it!

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30 Michelle March 26, 2014 at 9:43 am

ps. Good luck with your reno’s!

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31 Laura March 26, 2014 at 8:17 pm

Okay, I’m afraid you’ll have to be my new best friend. :) I’ve been so hesitant to get an Ikea sofa for fear it would fall apart in a month with our 4 kids, but now you’ve given me courage! And I have no idea why it hasn’t crossed my mind to check out West Elm’s sofas–I love that store! Thanks so much!

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32 Laura March 26, 2014 at 8:21 pm

PS: What fabric is the Chester? Does it clean well?

33 Michelle March 27, 2014 at 2:55 pm

Yes!! Let’s be Sofa-BFFs! I got the Chester in platinum grey leather, but it’s already getting a little worn and it doesn’t get nearly as much use as the Ikea one. I can’t see it on the site anymore, I wonder if they’re still making it.
x

34 Pamela March 26, 2014 at 12:26 am

Well done Michelle, beautiful home and commentary. Love your Australian roots x

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35 Sarah March 26, 2014 at 3:02 am

Beautiful thank you for sharing. I love the Yoshimoto Nara in the twins room :-) Would you mind telling me who made the ‘For Like Ever’ art work?

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36 Michelle March 26, 2014 at 9:24 am

I’m glad you like it! You can get the poster at Super-Rural.com

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37 Lesley Johnston-Börs March 26, 2014 at 4:40 am

Oh my I absolutely love this home. It is so bright and cheery with some beautiful pieces of furniture and artwork.

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38 Tracey March 27, 2014 at 7:58 am

WOW what an absolutely beautiful home, I love everything ! Congratulations on your lovely style. I am an Australian living in Italy so I can totally relate to not knowing where home is anymore! Thanks for sharing.

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39 Carrie March 27, 2014 at 12:23 pm

what is the name of the paint color you used in your living room? in the pictures it looks bluish gray, what does it look like in person? it is so pretty! thanks!

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40 Michelle March 27, 2014 at 3:17 pm

It is Kelly Moore ‘Grey Mare 3810′. It’s a light silvery grey, with hints of blue or lilac depending on the light. It’s definitely on the cool spectrum. Hope that helps!

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41 Jennifer March 27, 2014 at 6:08 pm

What is the name of the paint color in the master bedroom? I love it!

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42 Rea March 29, 2014 at 10:24 am

Such a lovely home indeed! I myself learned from my mother and it’s a nice fact to consider that mothers learn from their mothers and their mother’s mother.. I love the idea of white walls and although some people thinks it’s not practical, I think it’s just a matter of perception.. :)

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43 A March 29, 2014 at 4:13 pm

What is the name of the paint color for the main walls and trim? I love white on white!

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44 A March 29, 2014 at 4:16 pm

And the paint color in the dining room?

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45 Jane March 29, 2014 at 9:22 pm

Beautiful house! Can you please tell me where the pillows on the couch are from?

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46 Corina April 3, 2014 at 2:52 pm

Another Aussie here.. I want to put dibs on your house when you are finished with it! I’m particulary impressed with your twins’ bedroom. I’m “mom” to twin girls too. And mum to an older daughter born in Singapore. We are in a rental so we sit frustrated with not being able to truly make this house our home and end up in a muddle instead. We are currentlt sofa less- But I’m going to check out that IKEA sofa now!(I’ve been stalking an West Elm one). Expatriate life is very rewarding…but so much easier with the www.

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47 Corina April 3, 2014 at 2:54 pm

PS. Just love the image of the three Wheely Bugs lined up. Mine had the bee and ladybug. Best toy ever.

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48 Becky May 21, 2014 at 9:45 pm

I love the kid chairs you have with the white tables. Can you buy those online?

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