A few days ago I attended a dinner at a business conference for entrepreneurs with my husband. A man we sat near is happily working in a field he loves, but said that twenty years ago he would never have dreamed he’d be doing what he was doing now. It’s his third career, and his working life has been full of the unexpected, as many (most?) of our working lives are.
I love hearing about the paths people have travelled that have led to a perfect job or a dream fulfilled. It’s reassuring to hear happy endings when I feel I’m still in the middle of my own story. It seems that certain elements almost always emerge in these happy endings: a chance meeting here or a random connection there leads to a conversation that leads to a realization that leads from one opportunity to another. And somewhere on the journey is often a decision — seemingly simple but with far-reaching consequences— to pursue that work.
I love this passage about committing to a decision by Scottish mountaineer, W.H. Murray:
“Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves, too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his way.”
Isn’t it wonderful to think that once we commit ourselves to an idea, a project, a purpose, or goal, that things begin to work in our favor, things we could never have dreamt would have come our way? And how thrilling to watch as one thing after another falls into place toward the fulfillment of that decision.
Do you see the moment of commitment as an essential step to success? Have you seen this kind of magic happen in your own life? Inspire us with your stories, please!