Living With Kids: Cory Kallfelz

September 18, 2012

Most of us probably lean toward instant-design, don’t we? We buy a home, change the flooring, update the kitchen and bathrooms, paint and paint and paint, and maybe even buy a couch on a Saturday when we were supposed to be picking out paint colors! And just when we think we can’t take another day of renovation, the project is over! But can you imagine a home renovation that took seven years to complete? That’s exactly how long it has taken Cory and her husband to transform the ancient one-room schoolhouse into a home abundant with thoughtful details and timeless design. Seven years? Time well spent, I’d say! Please enjoy the home that Cory and Douglas (and Otto and Max!) built.

Q: Tell us all about the family who lives in this home!

A: I’m Cory Kallfelz and I live in this special house with my husband, Douglas, and our two sons: Otto, who is seven, and Max, who is three. Our home is located in Rhode Island just up the street from the ocean, nestled in a cluster of very sweet historic cottages. Douglas and I are both architects – a dangerous combo! – and we are passionate about our profession and connect on seeing the world through a similar lens. We met in design school many years ago and greatly value each other’s design counsel. We are avid DIYers and have spent many weekends and nights plugging away at our house project.

Q: How did this home come to be yours?

A: We were sold on this house because of the charm of the immediate neighborhood, its proximity to the water and our little town center, and most definitely because we could get our hands dirty with a hefty renovation. We found the former house – originally an 1890s one-room schoolhouse – and knew that this was our project. Our design juices flowed immediately, and we started our construction two months after closing.

And what a project it has been! Seven years and two kids later, we did a complete gut and added a second floor. You’re probably wondering what happened to the charming one-room schoolhouse? Well, by the time it had come into our hands it had been converted, covered-up, and carpeted. We did keep the 120-year old wood floors, front door, and first floor wall framing, though.

Doug and I put a lot of sweat equity into the renovation, and a house that we could move into was finished just before our first son was born. Oh, I forgot to mention that I got pregnant one month into construction! We moved into our home just in time to welcome young Otto into the world.

Q: Because of its age and its original purpose, there were probably lots of necessary renovations. Seven years’ worth! Where did you start, and how did you prioritize?

A: We actually had to have a lot of vision because in its pre-renovation state, it really wasn’t much. It had this fabulous history but had evolved into a sort of ho-hum house. We knew that we would have to change it dramatically. There was no charm on the inside but its size, location, and potential were so appealing.

To start, we sketched and drew numerous floor plans and elevations, and quickly decided on a simple open living-dining-kitchen layout on the first floor, and bedrooms and baths on the second floor. We moved out and were able to live with family during the construction and truthfully, wouldn’t have been able to do this project without that option. The priority was to move back into a house that had a finished kitchen, one working bathroom, primed walls, and finished floors. We decided that we could chip away at the remainder of the work ourselves.

That list included installing all the doors, trim, finished stair, final paint, and a bath-and-a-half.  As funds and time have become available, we have tackled projects like our master bathroom, hallway library bookshelves, etc. But our initial design had these areas already planned. The plumbing and electrical was in place and recesses were ready to receive the built-ins.

Q: What were your ultimate goals in your renovation? And was it difficult to select all the design items when the renovation took so long? I’m wondering what happens when your original plans or taste change? Does that ever happen?

A: The ultimate goal was to create a home for us that represented our design sense, but was also comfortable and cozy. We knew that we would be raising a family here so it had to be functional and have a great flow: a small house that lives big. I feel like the choices that we’ve made for things like trim and hardware are ones that are based on timeless design. For example, the egg-shaped door knobs are vintage in style but in a brushed nickel finish, which gives them an updated feel.

Can my taste change? Generally my taste has not changed but my obsessions can. Currently, I’m obsessed with built-in benches in breakfast rooms with cozy cushions and great light, which may happen in some house, someday! As for plan changes, we pretty much have stayed true to the general layout. However, Doug and I changed our minds about the location for our front door and moved it last summer. We had lived with the door located in one place for a while and realized that it just wasn’t working. There was a very straight-forward solution and we made the change. Taking time with our renovation has been a good thing in our case, and I often give that advice to clients to not rush into changes – especially when purchasing a new house – and to live in the house for a while and see if that modification really makes sense.

Q: What is your general philosophy to living with kids? Are there rooms in your home that are strictly for adults?

A: Our boys, especially Otto, have played a big part in our renovation. They help when they can and are able. Otto, as a small boy, even had his own kid-sized tool belt. So this is very much their house, too.

There are no off limits spaces, but I would say that we definitely use the vertical height in our house to keep some of the more delicate items like our glass Alvar Aalto vases and Japanese sake service.

We have fairly high ceilings on the first floor and in the upstairs hallway, so we’ve tried to build shelving all the way up to the ceiling to allow for plenty of storage; the boys’ things are at their level.

With such a small house, the boys play everywhere. So I encourage them to be creative with their play so that we are not overrun by a lot of toys. For example, the open stairs are for hoisting, the living room for forts, and the long hallway for car races! Much of their toys can be stashed in bins or in lower cabinets. I’ve also tried to have kid-scaled things in our house like rockers, benches, and stools, built-in toilet seats, and shaker pegs at their height – things that are usable for kids. All that being said, I will admit to a healthy supply of super glue for the occasional break!

The other day, Otto and I were coming in the house after school and he opened the back door, paused, and said, “Mom. I love this house.” Oh, how that warms my heart!

Q: What is your favorite spot in the house?

A: Can I choose more than one? Our three large kitchen windows let in the loveliest light, day or night. There’s also our dining room table with all of its well-worn nicks and scratches, the coziness of our living room at night, the spa feel of our master bath (no kiddo toys next to the soap!), and our family picture wall at the top of the stairs.

Q: Will you share your best personal and professional sources for inspiration?

A: I look for inspiration everywhere, and I’m a glutton for design. In my immediate surroundings, I am inspired by classic New England architecture and town planning. But I also love random things like Japanese packaging and rural quilts made in Alabama. I love traveling for inspiration, like to New York City, and immersing myself in the scale and structure of such a big city. I’m a junky for design magazines and sometimes have too many to get through; my favorite right now for interiors is Canadian House & Home.


Q: What would you admit is your decor or design weakness?

A: I LOVE lighting. I think lighting – whether natural, built-in, or plug-in – can make all the difference in a space. Using layers of lighting with dimmers can really make a room fabulous.  Another weakness I have is that I default to the color black. My husband makes fun of me because whether it’s a piece of furniture, picture frame, or lamp base, I can easily paint that baby black. I think it feels like neutral and allows that piece to be a strong visual support.

Q: What is your best advice for working moms?

A: I’ve found that each job requires dedicated time for it to be done well. I’m able to be quite flexible with my hours, and work certain days of the week when the boys are in school or childcare. Most of my design work is done on those workdays or at night.

When the boys were young, I could work part-time during naps and at night but daytime meetings were tricky without the help of a sitter or my husband. Once my youngest was two and a half, I felt it was the right time to get childcare and start to focus on my business. I feel like everyone’s balance is different and it really requires an individual approach.

Q: What do you hope your boys will remember about their childhood home?

A: I would love them to remember the care and thought that Doug and I have put into making it our home. I hope they remember the walkable location to the ocean and town, the responsible size and materials, and the quality and design of the space. I hope that by living in this environment, the boys embrace the importance of having pride in the place where you live.

Q: Please finish the sentence: I wish I had known…

A: I wish I had known that my career would take me the point where I am; where I am my own boss and crafting a design business. It all happened organically and I guess wish I would have had that take-the-bull-by-the-horns attitude and made the leap to working for myself a few years earlier.

I was hesitant to take the risk and admitting to myself that this is what I wanted…and doing it while being a mom, too. I was nervous about putting my name and design sensibility out there, and also being there for my boys. I can say that thankfully the tides have gone in a positive direction, and I am getting more comfortable with the whole notion that this is my business to foster. I guess I really have three kids, right?

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Thank you, Cory! I love your varied list of inspirations, especially New York City! It’s my favorite, too. And I completely hear you about the risks involved in putting yourself out there professionally and hoping you can keep it all together on the family front, as well.

Friends, have you ever taken on a lengthy renovation? If so, I’d like to ask you the same question I posed to Cory: Has your taste ever changed midway through your project? What happened next?

P.S. — You can find all the home in my Living With Kids series here. And if you’d like to share your own home with us, just send me a note! It’s a lot of fun…I promise!

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{ 36 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Jenna at Homeslice September 18, 2012 at 10:36 am

I love this home tour and interview! Your living with kids series is by far, my favorite. We are not doing an in-depth reno, but I do decorate our home slowly bit by bit. Sometimes my tastes have changed- I think they’ve really just been refined to what I truly love instead of what’s popular. Anyway, I deal with changes by trying to rework/paint/reimagine pieces we’ve grown tired of. When that’s not possible or we really don’t need something, we sell it and save the money to buy something we love. Through the whole process, I’ve become much more careful with what I buy!

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2 Design Mom September 19, 2012 at 1:59 am

“Sometimes my tastes have changed- I think they’ve really just been refined to what I truly love instead of what’s popular.”

That’s so well put, Jenna.

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3 kim September 18, 2012 at 10:50 am

this is one of my favorite home stories yet! such honest, no frills answers. not trying to impress anyone. i love it and i love their simple clean design aesthetic.

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4 Karin S September 18, 2012 at 10:50 am

What a fantastic home. I love the paint colour they used throughout the main living areas. Any way to find out?? Its good to take your time with projects like this. Your tastes evolve and improve over time I think too.

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5 Laura September 18, 2012 at 11:02 am

wow, so much to love about this house!!! love the colors and the built ins. Very lovely tour!

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6 Sarah @ Two Blue Lemons September 18, 2012 at 11:11 am

Wait…I know that family! Such a fun surprise! They are wonderful people but this beautiful tour makes me miss Rhode Island (we just moved). Thanks!

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7 Design Mom September 19, 2012 at 2:00 am

That IS a fun surprise. Yay for finding friends in unexpected places!

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8 Pat P September 18, 2012 at 11:14 am

I love the paint colors too. Would love to know what they are – especially the light sea blue in the front room by the front door!

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9 Cory September 19, 2012 at 9:12 am

Hi Pat- the color in the front hall is Roaring Mountain from Ralph Lauren.

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10 Pat P September 19, 2012 at 9:58 am

Beautiful – thanks!!

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11 Megan September 18, 2012 at 11:48 am

I’m in love with the front door frosted glass house number detail. Very cool! The moldings are all just gorgeous. They add so much charm!

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12 Design Mom September 19, 2012 at 2:00 am

Do you know what? That is my very favorite detail too!

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13 julia September 18, 2012 at 11:49 am

I’m an industrial designer married to an industrial desginer–so reading about their architect background warms my heart! I love what they have done to the space, everything is so intentional and well thought out. lovely!

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14 how2home September 18, 2012 at 11:59 am

This home is very cozy! I love the simplicity of the kitchen and the built in book case. Love it!

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15 Sharon @ Discovering Blog September 18, 2012 at 12:04 pm

What amazing wood work you have! It is so clean and strong and just gorgeous!

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16 Emily September 18, 2012 at 12:39 pm

So, so lovely. Perfect.
Would really love to know that kitchen paint color.

Thank you!

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17 Cory September 19, 2012 at 9:13 am

Emily, the color in the kitchen is Burmese Beige from Gidden.

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18 Jenny September 18, 2012 at 2:31 pm

The renovation looks amazing!! I love the wood work and attention to detail. It would be fun to see some before pictures as well.

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19 sally September 18, 2012 at 2:32 pm

Also a fan of the paint colors! Please share!

Thanks!

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20 Cory September 19, 2012 at 9:16 am

Sally, the Living/Dining/Stair color is Basic Beige from Gidden, the kitchen is one shade darker, Burmese Beige from Gidden, Front Hall is Roaring Mountain from Ralph Lauren. Any others?

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21 colleen October 14, 2012 at 6:03 pm

One more paint color question. I’m drawn to that blue in the washroom where your little guy is at the sink. What color did you use there? Your home is so beautiful. Thanks for sharing.

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22 Dale Coykendall September 18, 2012 at 6:43 pm

Really this this one, would also love to see before pictures thanks !
Dale

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23 Gisela September 18, 2012 at 7:03 pm

I pass by this house everyday after I drop off my daughter at school!!

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24 Design Mom September 19, 2012 at 2:01 am

What a great coincidence, Gisela. I’m sure it’s even more charming in person.

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25 leslie September 19, 2012 at 7:28 am

we moved two years ago and we are s.l.o.w.l.y reaching the end of our renovations/decorating….
like cory said, i would totally recommend taking your time while renovating/decorating a new home. my style hasn’t changed THAT much, but i became more and more confident on diy-projects, finding stuff that fits us well, and so on….
and it’s so, so great to actually be done with something you’ve been envisioning for a long time :)

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26 Amanda September 19, 2012 at 9:41 am

These are my favorite posts. We recently sold our 2 year old home for a 100 year old home and are about to begin a full renovation. Hopefully someday I can share our home in one of these posts!

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27 Karen F September 19, 2012 at 1:44 pm

I am SO in love with this house! What a beautiful job they did!

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28 Dragonfly UK September 19, 2012 at 3:05 pm

Love all the colours in this house – especially the cushion with the orange seed pods/leaves on it – it would go brilliantly on our sofa!
The living with kids series is great!

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29 robyn September 20, 2012 at 4:14 am

LOVE this house tour! what great inspiration!

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30 Cathy September 20, 2012 at 10:16 am

This house is gorgeous. I love every single detail. Thanks for the tour!

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31 emilee September 20, 2012 at 10:25 am

The last photo…what is that amazing little collection on the wall? Art? Hooks? Arrows? love it!

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32 Michelle Bostinelos September 20, 2012 at 12:41 pm

Love your house so much! Its wonderful! Thank you for sharing. In the last picture…that little chair…my parents have the same chair at their house and a red chair to match. They used to be at my grandparents house when I was growing up and now my kids use them when they visit grandma and papa! I’ve never asked my mom where they came from, and I’ve never seen anyone have them before. But now I have! So cool!

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33 Sarah September 24, 2012 at 7:57 am

Hi, I love this tour…how did you create the # on the front door window? Is that a window film or custom frosted glass?

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34 Seema Persaud, House & Home Web Promotions Editor October 4, 2012 at 9:09 am

Thanks for sharing these photos! Looks like a lot of work was put into the reno.

Nice to hear that you find H&H inspiring, Cory :)

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35 Aimee February 4, 2013 at 2:08 pm

Redoing a bathroom in a month or two. Finalizing details. If you don’t mind sharing I would love to know where you got the dark rectangle tile for the bathroom. I can’t stop looking at them!

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36 Cory April 16, 2013 at 7:08 pm

Aimee- they are 12×12 slate tiles cut in 1/2 and laid with staggered joints. Hope that helps.

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