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This post is a little off the usual faire you’ll find here, I hope you’ll indulge me.
Have you noticed that tons of design blogs are written by Mormons/former Mormons? What’s the deal with that? It’s sort of a hush-hush topic I hear whispered about at blogging conferences.
As a Mormon myself, I think about this from time to time and I get asked about it a lot. There are a few theories I’ve heard. Emily of Design Star wrote about it here. She thinks her creativity came from having limited resources in a big family. From having to shop at thrift stores and ingeniously remake the purchases, not because it was cool, but because that’s what they could afford. So featuring clever DIYs on a design blog is second nature for Mormons. No doubt there’s something to this idea.
My sister has her own theory. She feels like there are a lot of talented, educated Mormon women who grew up assuming motherhood would be the end all be all of their existence. Then they found, once they became mothers, that they had capacity for projects and ideas in addition to and beyond motherhood. And design blogs are an easy outlet for all the creative energy. I’m sure there’s something to this theory too.
Personally, I feel like the graphic design program at BYU (a Mormon university) has something to do with it. It’s an excellent program and places graduates at all the best firms, where they’re in contact with the most creative people in the field. This ensures that Mormons are thoroughly connected in the professional design community. And graphic design is one of those careers that you can step in and out of as a mother, and translates easily to a design blog.
The other day, I thought of another connection. Mormons have 13 articles of faith (short statements that describe our beliefs). The 13th one says: “…If there is anything virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy, we seek after these things.” Which, umm, seems like exactly what a design/lifestyle blog is. In the case of Design Mom, I never had the 13th Article of Faith in mind, but I have tried to create a space where I could share every lovely and praiseworthy thing I come across. I wonder if everyone raised as a Mormon has this admonition to seek-out-pretty stamped on our brains.
An admonishment to keep an eye out for beauty is a lovely sentiment to be raised with, and easily adopted by anyone — religious or not. I hope I’m raising my own kids with the same sentiment. My religion is far from perfect — there are aspects of it that drive me bonkers. But I particularly love this part of it.
What’s your take? Have you noticed the Mormon Design Blogs? Or been curious about them? Have any related theories? I wonder if anyone has attempted to compile a list…
P.S. — Religion-related topics, even ones as silly as this one, can be quite sensitive, so please play nice if you decide to comment.
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My theory is: you all are related. All of you. Or you know each other very well.
When I discovered these things called “blogs” a few years ago, it kind of became a game for me to find the connections-kind of like a bloggy Where’s Waldo. That and “who’s a Mormon?”
And you’re all younger than me and much, much more chic.
I share your religion, but not your design sense. My talents lie elsewhere.
So keep sharing the lovely & praiseworthy.
And if any of you are ever looking for a service project-please come calling. Just kidding ;)
A year ago I didn’t know a thing about Mormons or much about the blogging world either. Somehow I started reading one design blog which led to another and then 100 more, lol. I noticed a lot of them had similar undertones and eventually figured out that most are Mormon. I’m a naturally curious person so I’ve since done a little research and educated myself about the LDS faith. While I’m not converting, I’m thankful that my mind has been opened and I now know LDS Mormons are not “sister wives” and all the other sterotypes people believe they are. Gabrielle, I think you and many other Mormons on the internet have done a terrific job at presenting your lives and faith combined without pushing them on anyone else. Thank you!
I have noticed this trend, and been curious about it. I lived in Utah for two years while my mother attended the University of Utah courtesy of the Air Force. My experience there was the worst I had as a military child. But it’s a beautiful state and we made a few really good friends, so I am always looking for ways for Utah to “redeem” itself, so to speak. Your blog and others go a long way towards that.
While I have noticed that there are many Mormon design/lifestyle bloggers (some of my favorite!), I’ve never pondered the why of it. All of the reasons presented above make sense. Jordan’s idea can be applied to many women boggers – regardless of religion.
Whatever the reason, I am glad talented women are generous with thier ideas. I’ve actually learned bits and pieces about the Mormon religion through some of the blogs I read and it’s given me a nice perspective to a community I knew little about.
Funny to read that aspects of your religion drives you bonkers. I feel the same about Catholicism :).
I agree, Denise. I think Jordan’s idea is applicable to many women. And I’m glad I’m not the only one with a religion that tests their patience. : )
I have noticed this, but I don’t have a theory. To your knowledge, have a lot of the design bloggers completely the program at BYU?
That’s a good question, Amy. I’ll have to look into that.
I have actually wondered about this. haha! I noted to my husband not long after starting to read your blog (along with many others) how creative these blogs are and how the one thing in common was your faith. I especially love your sister’s take on it. Whatever it is, you all are very gifted and I really enjoy reading!
I’ve noticed that a lot of crafty/design/etc bloggers have faith of some sort. A lot of Mormons, for sure, and a lot of Christians of other denominations as well. I’m CRC/URC and we are taught that in everything we do, we do it to the glory of Him… so do it to the best of your ability! So if you’re a construction worker… build to the best of your ability. Teachers, teach to the best of your ability. And if you’re the crafty/creative type, do that to the best of your ability! I’m sure you’ve got the same if not similar idea going as well, so that could also be relevant.
I love this post Gabrielle ! I actually had goose bumps by time I finished reading it. It has inspired me to be more aware and to do more looking for the “virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy” things in my life and world. Life is too short to miss one single day of not appreciating and expressing (through design blogging?) the beauty that God has given us to enjoy. Thanks for this wonderful post! Thanks for being a Design Mom who shares “praiseworthy” posts with us.
Thank you for the sweet words, Sharlene!
I tend to agree with the first two suggestions rather than the BYU connection. Not all Mormons go to BYU and I would think that even of the Mormon bloggers that did attend BYU, many of them probably had other majors. I think the background of thrifting and creating is something that is kind of drilled into Mormons. With larger families and a church that stresses economy, thrifting and creating things is a natural product of these. The best thing about blogging is that it doesn’t require credentials. Women feel free to post about their projects and/or ideas even though they may not be “qualified” to talk about design.
I would also add that as a volunteer church, you grow up trying out stuff you never thought you could/would – which lends itself to a “If not you then who?” mentality. Mormon women grow up learning to give talks to the congregation, share talents and quazi-talents, like play the piano EVEN IF YOU REALLY ONLY KNOW HOW TO PLAY THE VIOLIN! *points to self.* You are part of enrichment committees, primary programs, blue and gold banquets and young women projects. Once a month you talk to people that you might not stop on the street otherwise. Where else can you have 7 girls and be asked to serve as the cub scout leader? There is plenty of fodder for a blog, and heaven knows its about to change. I think that you gotta have a sense of humor about it all, and then – well, just go for it!
I have noticed it and wondered why! Thanks for shedding some light on it and it think the combination of your points is illuminating. Also, I have wondered if it is encourgaging to know that if you start a design blog, that you have a community of faith behind you. A built in support group?
I think I can use Philippians 4:8 to justify my reading of design blogs…right?! :)
Good point, Barchbo. I’m sure that’s part of it.
I like your bonkers comment :)
I’m not a huge design blog reader, I read mostly lifestyle blogs, which are also heavily written by LDS women. I don’t really have any one theory.
I do think it’s funny how some of you are related. I remember thinking “wow” when Christian Nielson’s brother married Reachel Bagley’s sister-in-law. Then of course there is you, Liz Stanley and your sister, no-sex-in-the-city and her sister Nichole Hill. I think the LDS world is pretty small, maybe a few less degrees of separation here in the US than maybe other faiths/places?
From my short stint as a member of the LDS church I remember a good emphasis was placed on looking on the bright side, trying to be positive despite life’s constant ups and downs and of course, the negative that we all have to face. I think LDS people have a lot of great support in their faith in doing that and perhaps that translates to blogging.
I think I’m rambling now, so I’ll stop!
Hi Gabrielle,
I’m a Mormon and a reader but not a design blogger myself. I think it’s important to remember when discussing these issues that it’s dicey to make broad generalizations about members of the Mormon faith — we do not all come from large families (I don’t) and do not all grow up thinking that staying at home with children is the “be all, end all,” (I didn’t.)
she is talking about those that chose to start design blogs. reread her paragraph and pay attention to the context her ‘be all, end all’ comment. i’m sure you’ll see she was not painting every mormon woman in the united states with that brush.
I am not Mormon, nor really religious at all. I recently realized that 8 of the 10 blogs I read on a regular basis are written by Mormon’s. Personally, I love the creativity and big family aspect, as it is something I strive for myself. I am just happy that everyone is so willing to share!
This topic fascinates me. I don’t really have any theories, but I’m so happy that Mormon bloggers bring so much creative beauty into my life!
I wouldn’t call this topic “silly”; it negates the work and interests of women and there is enough of that in the world.
You’re right, Cherri. Silly was probably a bad word choice. I was trying to express that this topic felt “light-hearted” to me compared to a religious topic like “Is there a God?”. But again, silly was not the best choice.
Well, I’m pretty sure you’re succeeding in raising your kids to have a keen eye for beauty! It struck me at Sissy Boy Homeland that both Ralph and Maude pointed out stuff (clothes and artifacts) to you with strong graphic prints. Not the usual kid/teen items. I’m sure your sense of taste rubs off on them :)
On an unrelated note: I’d love to see some of the Vondelpark photos if you care to share!
xxx lotte
Hopefully I’ll get a post up next week about gorgeous Amsterdam! Thanks again for all your help, Lotte.
I meant to add, that I don’t think a religion that believes in creation would find creative impulses silly. It’s part of the human condition and spiritual design. This isn’t necessarily my personal belief, but it’s my way of explaining all how fundamentalist religions can and should value creative endeavors.
I wonder if Mormons being encouraged to journal has something to do with it as well. I’m not a Mormon but (almost) all the Mormons I’ve known have used journals to reflect in journals almost daily. Blogs are a way to get more feedback on a journal of sorts.
I was thinking the same thing!!!!
I agree with this. I blog about my family life. Print it off every couple of years and call it my family journal. Nice to have that guilt gone.
It doesn’t hurt that friends and family can keep up with us at the same time.
I think the same thing. I write a family/ wanna-be design blog because I like to write. I find the blogging format a much more interactive and creative way for me to get to write, then to just write a few paragraphs in my journal every night. On blogs I can add pictures, links, and all sorts of fun stuff.
I think there’s a lot of truth to all of those reasons for so many Mormon design blogs. I think so many Mormon girls grew up crafting and “homemaking” with their mothers that it seems natural to apply to that to their adulthood. My mom is always telling me I need a hobby– that I should be painting or sewing or canning– all those stereotypical Mormon SAHM things, all those things our mothers did at Homemaking meetings. It’s definitely a part of our culture. And Jordan’s explanation totally resonates with me, since I started my life as a mom and realized there had to be more to my life than just being a mom. Perhaps there is also less guilt in investing time in design and lifestyle blogging than other pursuits because it translates to easily to the home– it can be done from home, and it benefits the home, and can so easily involve your children. (That silly Mormon guilt thing is something that drives me bonkers!)
I appreciate your being upfront about your faith– that it is who you are, but there are things that bug you too. It’s always nice to know I’m not the only one who thinks life as a Mormon woman isn’t always 100% perfect.
I noticed this trend, too. If Jewish people are “people of the book” then Mormons are “people of the blog.” :)
Love it!
I had noticed this trend, and attributed it to your sister’s reasoning: lots of smart and educated women with more choices to express themselves than prior generations had. After reading your post, your reasoning also resonates – that 13th article of faith rocks!
Wow. I couldn’t believe the name of this post when I read it. I have wondered this too many times to count! I’ve always been on Jordan’s wave length. But I’ve also wondered if it’s not juts lots of Mormons blogging, but they are the *popular* blogs and, therefore, we all read them. I wonder how much of it is that you all support each other and have created a blog community based on similar beliefs (with great blogs, of course). I find blogs via other blogs, so every time you link to another Mormon blogger, that increases their popularity and vice versa? Just a thought? Because, oh my, have I pondered this crazy phenomena!
Ditto this. I agree with the big family/thrifty/homemaking reason, and the SAHMs seeking additional outlets for their creativity reason, but I think the cross-referencing (cross-linking?) between blogs probably has a lot to do with it.
this is the theory I’m going with- I think it has a lot to do with the mutural support.
Great post and comments.
I’m super curious about this. Sometimes I link to/promote another blog and don’t realize it’s authored by a Mormon. I think the mutual support definitely happens, but I wonder how much of it is intentional.
oh i’m so excited you wrote this!!! i’ve been noticing the same thing lately, even just little things like one of my other favorite bloggers (k over at tollipop) was talking about taking her kiddies to visit her alma mater – and it too was byu! it’s amazing. i’m actually kind of envious… southern presbyterians need to get on this bandwagon! i think maybe our problem is that one of the unofficial tenets of our faith involves drinking together… and so maybe we just come up with good ideas and they never get much further : )
I come from a long line of crafty, industrious, strong Mormon women who worked hard to create beauty out of whatever resources they had available to them! We are encouraged to cultivate and celebrate and share our creative pursuits/talents. (Hello Homemaking!)
There is also a strong emphasis on documenting our lives. My Grandmother has kept detailed journals/books of rememberance for years.
I don’t think it’s exclusive to Mormon’s but it (blogging/design) seems a pretty natural extension of our priorities!
My impressions of the Mormon religion come almost entirely* from reading design blogs (a while ago I had the lightbulb-over-the-head moment when I realized what so many of my favorite blogs have in common).
Of course I don’t have any theories about why, but I will share with you two impressions I have gotten through this very narrow window. The first is of incredible industriousness. I have never seen a Mormon blogger complain, “Ugh. I have too much to do today!”
The second is of a culture where appearances matter a lot, more so than for the people around me. I remember NieNie saying something like, “A Mormon mother’s job is to brush her daughter’s hair to a lacquer on Sunday mornings.”
I know that what may be generally true for a group of people is not true for all members, but I thought I share a little of what I see from the outside.
*I also remember the ads that aired on Saturday morning TV when I was little: “Brought to you by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints — the Mormons!”
I love hearing your impressions, Tricia. So interesting!
When I started reading blogs, I gravitated toward the ones that spoke to my interests of motherhood, travel, fashion and design. And it just so happened that my top four favorite blogs, including Design Mom, are written by Mormons. I probably have said to myself at one point, “What a coincidence!,” but never felt the need to question why. I just feel the daily urge to enjoy the beautiful posts! :)
So glad to count you as a reader!
i attended byu as an advertising/marketing major (management side, so a lot of business) but we worked very closely with our creative track and graphic design program and WOW that is one hardcore program (not even kidding) and they are extremely talented people! i know of a few programs at byu that are well connected in the creative industry and send their students out to intern in new york, chicago and l.a. – advertising & graphic design are two of those programs (as well as p.r. and film) all receiving national recognition and awards year after year – and landing jobs at huge national firms. no doubt they have what it takes.
i also enjoyed this article written by “a young, feminist atheist who can’t bake a cupcake”
http://www.salon.com/life/feature/2011/01/15/feminist_obsessed_with_mormon_blogs
i think she makes some good points as to why – in a world where marriage, family and being a mom take the back seat and are not viewed as “great” things – people are still fascinated and take notice.
I’ve noticed this as well! Love this post. I know religion can be a sensitive topic, but my favorite posts are always the ones that include a little about the blogger’s personal religion. I’ve always loved learning about others’ beliefs and celebrations.
I’m a former Mormon and still love many things about that faith.
I think that you have a really good idea. I also think that from now on, I should be considered your favorite child, just because I was brave enough to comment!! :D
So cute, it must be said.
Interesting read. I’ve definitely noticed and discussed this trend with my husband. There is not a large Mormon population where I am from or live now, so before reading several blogs written by Mormons I didn’t know much about the church. And what I thought I knew was wrong!
I am curious about one thing after reading your thoughts on the 13th article of faith, “…If there is anything virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy, we seek after these things.” Again, I am not Mormon and I am not pretending to understand this article or its origin completely.
I sometimes feel bogged down and over-stimulated by all of the “stuff” that is out there. Instead of feeling inspired I’m left wanting more and more and more. Is the urge to “seek-out-pretty” a Mormon thing, or an instinct caused by never feeling satisfied by what we have and always wanting what others have? Is there a line between seeking what is praiseworthy (i.e. blessings, Creation, people) and seeking “stuff” or status?
Please understand, this is not a statement that I believe this is how design bloggers, Mormon bloggers, or bloggers in general think/act/feel. It’s simply a reflection of my own feelings in relation to the blogs I read. I often find myself needing a break from the blog world to focus on what I have and not what I want or think I need. When I read the article of faith you posted it pricked that part of my brain again.
What a fascinating question, Ella. I’ve been a Mormon all my life, known that article all my life, but I’ve never thought of it in a “stuff” sense. I’ve always applied it to nature, arts and culture, good works, and the like. But I can see how it could be applied to stuff: home dec, fashion, good design, etc. And frankly, I think the latter can get you into the trap of coveting what others have rather than appreciate what you do have. Covetousness certainly isn’t just a Mormon thing, but we definitely have our share.
This is a great comment. I am an LDS woman and feel often wanting “more” as well. One of the main reasons why I love Design Blog and her SIL Say Yest To Hoboken is because the blogs main content is family related or what I would call virtuous and praiseworthy. There are posts related purely to style and fashion items but the main content is applicable to me and my growing family.
I would love to also hear Gabrielle’s response.
I agree with AJ.
Perhaps it would help answer this question to put that quote in context of the whole 13th article of faith:
“We believe in being honest, true, chaste, benevolent, virtuous, and in doing good to all men; indeed, we may say that we follow the admonition of Paul – We believe all things, we hope all things, we have endured many things, and hope to be able to endure all things. If there is anything virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy, we seek after these things. ”
I don’t believe ‘things’ in this context is really referring to ‘stuff’ or ‘status,’ but more to goodness in general. We want to be good, do good, and feel happiness and joy. This article of faith speaks to our actions, our character, our attitudes, and what we have in our environment. This last part, I believe, encourages us to seek out the best and fill our minds and spirits with ‘good.’ Whatever helps us to feel uplifted, encouraged, and have a general sense of well-being, is what we should look for and keep near rather than things that will eventually bring us down. This definitely includes, but is not limited to ‘stuff.’ It can be literature, music, gardening, people, homes, animals, art, creative pursuits, ideas, careers, opportunities to serve others, or whatever. If it helps us to be honest, kind, happy,hopeful, and love and serve others, it’s a good thing – we should go there! And make it lovely!
A short addendum…I was going to say this to begin with but my post was getting a bit long. One thing I do appreciate about Design Mom specifically (and some other blogs) is the focus on family and the things that are important to them. A lot of what is posted here is about celebrating their creative outlets together as a family and encouraging the development of creativity in the children. That is so important and definitely praiseworthy.
Oh Ella, I’m sure there’s something to your thought of seeking out pretty to compensate for feeling dissatisfied about something. I know there’s a cultural joke in America about shopping our way out of depression — there’s nothing that new pair of shoes won’t solve. Right? : )
I don’t believe that’s the thought behind the Article of Faith I reference, but I’ve definitely found myself bogged down with blogs as well. I know that might sound odd, because I write one. But I suppose everyone takes a break from the blog world now and again.
I agree with the theory of the 13th article of faith. We seek things that are lovely. Art, design, writing, music, dance, theater etc…all fall into this category. Who can deny the feeling of joy from accomplishing any of these things and from experiencing any of these areas. Thus, I am not surprised there is a long line of history in our faith with the arts. Second, doing DIY projects can be work at the same time of creativity. Working and fulfilling the end goal also can give a sense of self satisfaction, which is part of the same article of faith. As a Mormon, I am not creative. I really wish I was. I admire those that can whip things up from the top of their heads. But my talent lies into being able to duplicate things really well. Must be why I am more musical then artsy. I am grateful for all design blogs out there, Mormon or not, because it allows me to find something creative that I would love to duplicate at home. Thank you to all who think it is worthwhile to enrich our lives with such splendor.
Interesting post. I didn’t know you were Mormon nor did I notice/realize any of the other design/craft blogs I read are Mormon. I guess the ones I read don’t discuss their faith much. I did notice that a lot have large families. I just assumed it was an outlet for thrifty stay at home moms.
It is so funny that you brought this up because I have slowly become aware that a majority of the blogs I read are written by mormons and have wondered about it myself.
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A friend and I have wondered about this many a time in the past. I read more design blogs by Mormon bloggers and she reads a large number of craft blogs by Mormon bloggers. We’re always wondering why it is that way….it’s reassuring to see Mormon bloggers talk about it…we were beginning to feel crazy for noticing it.
Half of my family is LDS and I’ve wondered about it and talked with my (half) sister (who is LDS) about it, but we didn’t come up with any ideas of why. She also blogs. Ironically she is the creative one of LDS side and the rest of us who aren’t LDS are super creative as well. So it’s a nice common link that we share. I do agree with the part about keeping a family history idea though as to a good reason why since it is such an integral part of the faith. It is something both sides of our family does as well too so we share another nice link there. Regardless of the reason why it is nice to see so many nice women blogging and bringing hobbies, and interests to the forefront. Also, it is nice when people can get along when they share different faiths as well.
I discovered blogs before I was a mormon but it makes sense to me now why I gravitated to these blogs, and why I think others do as well. In some way, they evoke this really ideal world. In this world there are beautiful women with lovely children who mostly express the nice parts of their life and talk about creative projects they do with their kids and beautiful aspects of design in all areas of life. I think women, especially, are looking for a place where they can be celebrated and these blogs (and in my opinion especially ones done by mormons) really create this place of celebration. I think women want a place where they can see what it ideally looks like and also where they can feel okay about being a female and/or being a mother. I’m not a mother per se but I see these blogs and it makes me realize something that I want for myself and my future family and was actually an instrumental part in my curiosity about mormons. Especially when the world around me and the corporate world I work in seems to sort of look down on women who become mothers and even females to some extent (again, my experience but probably not everyone’s experience). These blogs are a wonderful place to go and not have to feel bad about being a female and loving beautiful things and being a mother and all the other things that can sometimes feel so faux pas.
Thanks for all you do though Gabrielle! I think you are beautiful and an enigma and embody what I strive to be as a mother some day in the future.
Ooh, ditto to this, too. Mothering can be hard, tiring, dirty, stressful work, whether you do it full time from home or whether you try to balance it with a demanding job (like I do). I enjoy reading blogs like yours especially because they help re-center me–they help me remember what I love about being a mother, they help me remember to take joy in the little things, to try to add some beauty and magic in each day, and they spark my imagination with ways to do that. My life is full of people who complain, who are stressed, who are tired, who just want to slide by with the minimum each day so they can get some sleep before they have to slog through the same thing again the next day. Life is not all sunshine and lollipops, so those points of view are valid, but this is a welcome, needed, break from that. I do truly enjoy, too, when my favorite bloggers “keep it real” and talk about the challenges they face, but it’s balanced with so much good stuff that it’s still a breath of fresh air.
I agree with Jo and Hyzen, especially Hyzen’s feeling of being surrounded by ‘people who just want to slide by with the minium each day’ this rang such a bell with me and it is true, now I think about it, this is one of the reasons I like several design blogs by Mormons because they are family centred and full of people who are trying to get the maximum out of their day. They are inspiring and uplifting to read… and thought provoking, will be thinking on this one a while. Thank you Gabrielle.
I meant to say–I’M one of those stressed, tired, complaining people myself sometimes, for sure. I’m not one who wants to slide by on the minimum though, and that’s what this is about for me. I try to count my blessings, and conciously strive to create good memories even in hard times, and Gabrielle’s blog and others help me do that.
I’m so glad you brought up the 13th article of faith. I remember reading about how you said your mom helped and encouraged you at your talent when she recognized it. Mothers are so good at doing this and you have really inspired me to help my children try to recognize and develop their own gifts. With such a focus on women having success in the world it is easy to forget on how we need to discover and build on our individual talents. Many church leaders have expressed the importance of meditating and having a hobby or a creative outlet. I also remember always being taught that we are to share our talents with others. All the Mormon blogs I read make me more excited about motherhood and give me ideas to make it fun and beautiful.
Very interesting topic. I think the theories you have listed (at least the first two) seem right to me. I am a catholic raising a large family (5 kids) I have spent a lot of time trying to find creative outlets that don’t take away me away from my first desire which is being there for my family. A design blog is a small way to do that. Regarding the first theory, I did not grow up in a big family, but I was a huge thrift store shopper, and room redecorator growing up. Funny how those little things you do in youth often are real indicators of what you’ll always be passionate about. xo
I actually think that it’s a Christian thang, not just a Mormon one. As a non-religious but culturally identified Jew, I’ve noticed that a lot of my favorite bloggers are practicing Christians/Mormons. I wonder if it’s because I read a lot of American blogs (I’m in France) and people are more open about their religious beliefs in the US (even if it’s in a very subtle, inclusive way, like you did on your Easter post).
My other thought is that practicing Christians/Mormons tend to have more children and so, like you said, think more about how to do much with little, stretch your dollars, be a good stay at home mom (meant in a good way) etc. I’m a former frugal blogger myself (AlmostFrugal.com), so I tend to read a lot of the frugal, design, lifestyle, mom blogs.
Kelly
Gabrielle, what a great post and discussion that’s generated from it! I’ve often wondered your thoughts on this interesting phenomenon. In addition to thinking about the reason why there are so many design and lifestyle blogs by Mormons, I’ve also been curious about how all these blogs function as a community. I thought it was super interesting how bloggers (especially you and your NieDay auctions) mobilized to raise money and support for Stephanie Nielson. It was almost like a virtual Relief Society project; only everyone in the world was invited. Thanks a lot for sharing your hypotheses about this fascinating trend.
I wondered that too. I grew up Mormon, where we were taught all kinds of crafts and homemaking, but more important I thought it was because of the emphasis put on journaling and the importance of family history. A blog is a natural 21st-century interpretation of that.
I was telling my husband not that long ago that almost every blog I love is written by a Mormon. Sometimes I wouldn’t even realize and then sure enough. It is funny to me too because I am pregnant with my fifth child and live in Los Angeles (which let me tell you is a rare thing here and causes mouth gaping stares and funny comments). I cannot even tell you how many times in the last month I have been asked if I was Mormon even by those who are Mormon. One Mom at my daughters ballet class said that with my husband and I having blonde hair and blue eyes and having five kids and that I am creative and make all this stuff she just assumed I was……and she is Mormon herself. While I am not Mormon I did grow up as one of seven children and yes had to be thrifty and creative so maybe your sister has a point there.
That is hilarious, Bethany!
So interesting! I am not gifted in the area of design (in the least!) but I do love looking at blogs like this… so I suppose that, being LDS myself, maybe the desire to read them stems from some of the same reasons that you write them. In any case, thanks!
I think it also stems from the fact that we want to create homes where we and our children feel comfortable and happy. One of my favorite aspects of the Mormon faith is the emphasis on family and home. I want my home to be a place where my children will want to come and feel safe and happy, so I try to bring things into my home that help accomplish that goal. I know design is only a small part of creating a happy home, but for me it certainly helps.
And I know religion is always a sensitive topic, so I’m NOT saying that women of other faiths don’t strive to create happy homes and families. It’s just one of the Mormon church’s basic tenets.
—a
Interesting topic, interesting theories. It would be a great study for a sociologist.
I also like this idea from Dieter Uchtdorf: “The desire to create is one of the deepest yearnings of the human soul. No matter our talents, education, backgrounds, or abilities, we each have an inherent wish to create something that did not exist before.”
I literally laughed out loud (very loudly) as soon as I read the title of this post! I noticed a few months ago that majority of the design blogs I read are from people in Utah and the others I read are from former/current Mormons elsewhere. I totally wondered the same thing aloud to my husband one night. :)
I am not Mormon and read only 3 blogs – including yours – which are all by Mormon woman! I always assumed the common thread was not wanting a job that took you outside the home on a regular basis. Another common theme that I find on all 3 blogs is the inclusion of the writer’s children in the blog. I have always wondered how the children feel about having their life documented publicly – especially as the children get older. And the other question I have is about safety. Are you ever afraid that by sharing so much info. — pictures of your homes, etc. – that there is a safety concern?
When all is said and done — whatever the reasons that bring you to blogging — I am grateful that you share you life in this way. Thank you.
Good questions, Lilly. So far, my children really enjoy being part of my blog. But if that changes as they get older, I’ll definitely have to rethink my content.
I LOVE what you said about the 13th article of faith! It’s the mutual theme this year and we’ve been talking about SEEKING after wonderful, virtuous and beautiful things. Though perhaps not at the surface for all of the design blog motivation, at least subconciously we seek after inspiring things.
I also think that all that believe in God notice more about the world and the wonder that has been created. I think that’s part of it, too!
great post! I have been interested in this!;)
the irony is that while we seek after the lovely and praiseworthy, sometimes design blogs can focus on the completely frivolous, which goes against the whole prudence and industry ideal. “You MUST get this $400 diaper bag! It is so chic.”
And while I disagree with the BYU suggestion, I think that the network created (and endorsed) within the Provo-born bloggers has amplified the notoriety of many Mormon bloggers.
How funny- just yesterday while looking over a new design blog that caught my eye, I noticed a little remark somewhere that tipped me off to the fact that the writer was a Morman. I realized that, in fact, a LOT of the blogs I read are written my Mormans. Hadn’t thought about it before. I had to click on the link when I saw the title of your post.
I am not Mormon (nor particularly religious) but a few years ago I did find that I was drawn to reading blogs that happened to be written by Mormom ladies.
I found it so interesting that so many of the women were insanely creative, dedicated to their families, very happy and young mothers. As the only person in my peer group and neighbourhood to choose to start a family at 24 it was nice to see that other people were doing it too. And they were happy about it. It was also nice to come across “mommy blogs” that didn’t find the authors complaining about their day to day life on an ongoing basis.
So I say…keep at it Mormom ladies. Your blogs are among my very favourite!
So true, Jan! Mormons are a great group to stumble into if you find yourself a mother in your early 20′s. It’s nice to know you’re not alone. : )
I have noticed that a lot of my favorite blogs are written by Mormon women and I have wondered about why. I’m a Christian (non-denominational now but raised Baptist) design/lifestyle blogger also and I feel like I share these same reasons for blogging the way I do. I have a feeling that a lot of the great design/lifestyle/mom blogs out there are written by Christian women of all denominations for the same reasons you mentioned (wholesome, beauty-seeking, family-focused, creative because of a tight connection to the Creator…). I would add to the theories that Mormon women seem to be a little more outward about their denominational association, and wear it proudly on their blogs like a badge. (Not saying that’s a bad thing, but it may be why it’s more prominent and apparent.)
As a non-Mormon I was curious when I first discovered all these great blogs and the fact that so many of them were created by Mormons. I definitely identify with Ella’s comment about feeling bogged down sometimes with all the pretty ‘stuff’. I like it when I get inspiration on how to improve my home and myself, but sometimes I need a break from the design blogs because I start feeling like things are never good enough and that I need more stuff. It’s definitely been a balancing act for me. My impression is that a design blog is a compatible creative outlet for stay at home moms and a lot of Mormons are stay at home moms. I also think that most of the Mormon design blogs I read do a really good job of being inclusive of non-Mormons who read their blogs and not being in-your-face with their faith. Such an interesting topic. I’m really glad you brought it up!
so. there was this story in Salon earlier in the year: http://www.salon.com/life/feature/2011/01/15/feminist_obsessed_with_mormon_blogs
and i found it really interesting that not only are there so many mormon mommy bloggers, but that there is soooo much appeal in them. :)
I think it’s a confluence of a few things: Current culture, with the abundant access to less expensive but beautiful and/or stylish goods (we can all shop at Target and TJ Maxx!), mixing with Mormon Culture — where a crafty/make-do attitude with a little actual LDS doctrine results in people who have pretty blogs, sunny attitudes, and good looking families. I think it’s great, and blogging has been an important creative outlet for a lot of people, especially moms, I think, and obviously not just mormons. I find the interest in blogs by mormon women fascinating, and it’s fun to see the publicity and read the comments. That said, I also have some mixed feelings about it because we (Mormons) don’t all have pretty blogs, don’t all have sunny attitudes and some of us have ugly families (but still loved!) and so I hope that people realize that our Faith is not simply about having a good, lovely life that we post on our good, lovely blogs.
I do love and appreciate your blog and many others. And it’s nice to have so many spaces on the web that celebrate the creative and the beautiful.
I have to admit I’ve never paid attention. I mean, I’ve read in few posts that you, Gabrielle, are Mormon, but since the religion is one of the last of my interests, this information was forgotten just after reading it (but maybe you’re right, I should pay more attention, maybe there are connections): the point is I’m more focused on people, as they talk, act (write), what they do. What fascinates me of you and of this blog is that you show beautiful things in a simple and spontaneous way; that there is always positivity in your posts, a positivity that inspires to look on the sunny side of things; and that you always have a nice word for everybody. And the definition “I post on where design and motherhood intersect.” is perfect for this blog: a forthcoming mum, and a inspirational designer.
Apart from this… is Maude the author of the comment #34? :)
That Maude is such a cutey! She kind of snuck that in there, didn’t she? : )
As a believing Mormon, it concerns me a little bit that the design blog/Mormon trend might give the impression that Mormons are, as a group, very appearance oriented. I agree that the 13th Article of Faith applies to making our homes and families lovely, but it isn’t only that — seeking after things that are of good report and praiseworthy means much more to me than only sewing or thrifting. Blogs by their nature are visual, and I enjoy a good design blog as much as anyone, but there is much more to life than what it looks like, and if we’re going to talk about faith, I hope we’re thinking more deeply than only what’s on the surface.
That being said, I find design mom less surface-y than many design blogs, and I appreciate you letting your family and beliefs cross over into the design elements. Makes it much more readable for the average mom.
Hi, I have no idea about your faith, and the other blogs i read talk about their church, but never think about it. I’m catholic and love your blog and i’m happy, you like community can have this great ideas. I apreciate and hope you can keep this good ideas. Thanks for share.
I ran across my first blog about 3 years ago & was INSPIRED… I began following the blog everyday and eventually started reading more blogs. I couldn’t get over how AMAZING these women were. They made everything special for their children… I wanted to be just like them! I couldn’t believe I never thought to turn my kid’s milk green on St. Patrick’s Day or make heart shaped pancakes on Valentine’s Day. I was so wrapped up in my work & life that I forgot the little things.
I immediately noticed that all the bloggers I was following were Mormons because they incorporated that in their blogs. I am from Arkansas & Mormons are not very common here. I was so inspired by their blogs that I started researching this religion and even requested a “BOOK OF MORMON” I haven’t converted but I have made LOTS of wonderful friends & I respect the religion. I LOVE how Mormons focus on family and home! I made it a priority focus more on my family and home and less on other things.. Of course I blog every minute of it too!
First I want to thank youf or being such a great example to the rest of the world of what a Mormon woman can be, talented, fun, joyous, and did I say talented?!
I think this phenomenon is not particular to design blog. I think there are many Mormons blogging on all different fronts. Well, food and design and mommy blog I know for sure. Tech stuff I wouldn’t know because I don’t read tech blogs, but maybe.
and other thing, I forgot before the english in not my first language and you don’t know how much time have no idea about what’s the meaning of DIY, but oow read this LDS, what is that?. First, think i will read LSD, but no my mistake. Someone.
Caru,
LDS is short for “Latter-Day Saints” which is short for “The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints” aka mormons. :)
And Gabrielle, thanks for the bonkers comment. Made my day to know that someone out there maybe shares the same sentiments as I. :)
And DIY means Do It Yourself. It refers to a project you can make yourself. ( I liked reading your comments, Caru. What is your home country?)
Thanks so much for posting this! Being a new mom, I relate with Jordan’s theory. I’m just glad there are so many people to connect with out there that are in similar situations!
I’m so glad you addressed this topic — I’ve really been struck by how many of the blogs I follow are written by Mormons. This explains a lot.
I did notice and was sort of suprised at first. I sew and knit and many of those blogs are also written by Mormon moms. I grew up with lots of Mormon friends so was familiar with the religion but didn’t know anything about the tie to design until my bog reader filled up with great blogs written by Mormons. I even commented on it to some fellow mom friends and they had no idea what I was talking about. ;)
I read an article in the Guardian about Jesca Hoop and couldn’t help but make a connection with what you brought up about mormons and design/creativity.
Ms. Hoop is no longer with the Mormon church, but the excerpted piece below is what made me make the connection.
“Mormons, she says, are offered a life plan, in the shape of the “patriarchal blessing” received at the age of 12. Hoop’s own blessing, she giggles, presaged disaster; her mother’s, however, indicated that “her voice would be heard around the world”. Before his death a few months ago, Hoop’s father told her: “‘I think your mother’s blessing is being lived out through you.’ They’re firm believers in this,” she says, tears smudging her eyes. “I just thought: what a tender thing for my dad to say.”"
Speaking for myself, I feel that a life of, or one simply with faith, keeps helping me see the gifts we are given daily. Sometimes I have so much gratitude for seeing such beautiful things around that it makes me get back to drawing, or making stories and/or crafts with my kids, because it’s all so worth sharing.
By the way, I think your blog is fantastic and you’re living out a magical adventure that would just stay between bindings for most. All the best to you and your gorgeous family!
I’ll have to look up that article. Sounds super interesting to me.
As a Mormon, mother, housewife, part-time paid employee, non-BYU-student, definitely NO artistic background (I was a math/stats major with no right brain), mother, and blogger (although not design), I’m not sure what draws us all to it. I think the journaling has a lot to it. I totally agree with the 13th Article of Faith reference (and love it as my patriarchal blessing refers to it). I think families play an important role as far as inspiration for blogging in general. My blog started as an easy way to share pictures and thoughts with those not living close to me. So while you have the design talent to share, I had something else. Very interesting! It will make for good conversation in the car today at least!
I am new to DM but I just assumed you were Catholic, with the hand full of children and all. I married a fallen Mormon but have spent oodles of time in Provo over the years. I didn’t know about the 13 card but it makes so much sense about the attention to detail I witnessed in so many Mormon homes.
I love that you brought this up, it’s a gentle spin on a religious topic. Very nice.
My theory: Wasn’t there a talk at general conference years ago about the power to spread the gospel through the internet, so a lot of people started getting blogs? At least that’s how I remember it. And I think all of the cool Mormon blogs about food,fashion, design, and travel came from artsy/creative mormon women that wanted to have a blog, but didn’t want it to be like those “seriously so blessed” family blogs. And also, I think a lot of mormons growing up really do DO a lot of crafty things for church activities and families seemed to get really into holiday/seasonal decorations. Inspired by their childhood, the clever/creative/artsy type Mormons started blogs and actually made their decorations more like art and less sisterwive-scrapbooky. And then everyone networked, because Mormons love to network (as do other religions/sects). AND now it’s been a few years and people prefer to read about DIY and ranunculus and see pictures of coffee (or hot chocolate or maybe some of you say it’s hot chocolate, because your in-laws read your blog) with hearts in foam,so when Mormons start blogs now they are a mix of A Cup of Oh Happy Rockstar.
i like your comment.
A Cup of Oh Happy Rockstar
BRILLIANT!!! Love it!
Yes! I have totally noticed and wondered about this trend myself! I can’t count how many times I’ve come across a blog and been like, “wow, love this blog!” and then two seconds later, “hey, they’re Mormon too!” I think you’re right on with your hypotheses, and the first commenter has a good point about connections too. Blogs are all about social media, so we Mormons already know each other and tend to promote each other without even meaning to necessarily. Fun post, thanks:)
oh and p.s. I LOVE these types of blogs AND forgive me for using that instead of who in the above comment.
Gabrielle,
I have to admit, I’ve wondered the SAME thing! And have mentioned it to other friends and family before.
I thought perhaps it was just because I’ve kept my circle of blogs on my reader tight but from your experience it seems like more than that.
I thought I’d add that when I’m reading Mormon blogs I’ve taken note of everyday life and family photos. To me, I’ve definitely noticed the difference between how Mormons dress compared to how people dress around me. They seem to care about what they wear and take the time to look cute! I don’t find that often where I live. When I try to look stylish I usually feel like the odd man out.
That mindset would lend itself to wanting your home to look nice and being interested in beauty and design. Perhaps a cultural thing?
Makes me wish I had more Mormon friends;)
it’s so funny that you mention this-when i was a marketing manager at a little women’s shoe brand and started identifying potential bloggers to work with i realized that so many of them were LDS. And because I was as well, I was finding all kinds of connections to them. My bosses were convinced that there was some kind of Mormon Mafia at work out there ; )
I like Jordan’s theory and think it is dead on.
I have also noticed this—so many of the blogs I love most are written by Mormon women. I think the design blog/Mormon tie might have something to do with the emphasis on missionary work and evangelizing in the Mormon religion. I can’t think of another religion that focuses on mission trips like Mormonism does (although I could certainly be wrong about that). I think in some ways, the blogs are an extension of the urge to evangelize. Your blogs are showing us these joyful, beautiful lives full of love and wonderful moments! And certainly, reading your blog makes me want to live a life more like you, one with more joy, more beauty and more love. I won’t ever have kids but when I see your big happy family it looks incredibly appealing! And I think that’s a real accomplishment and one that speaks highly of you and your religion.
I also think that the blogs I read from Mormon women show, without exception, really content women. And that seems like a huge contrast to so many other blogs written by people who constantly want more/better and are tired with many aspects of their lives. That is obviously a real simplification and I’m definitely not saying that there aren’t a ton of amazing blogs written by non-Mormons—this is just my gut reaction to your question.
A very interesting idea, Kate. I think you are absolutely right that blogs written by Mormons potentially give a good (or bad) impression about Mormons to the blog readers.
Of course, I know that in my case, when I started this blog I had no idea there were going to be any readers beyond my Mom and sisters. So I definitely didn’t think of it as an evangelizing tool. Although, I’m sure there are Mormons who do think of their blogs this way (at least partially) when they start them.
I agree with all of those theories! I am surprised every time I find out someone’s Mormon. Most of the time I’ve been following them for ages already, and then I see some picture of “I Am a Child of God” in their kids’ room, or they have a post titled Popcorn Popping and then I do a little investigating and they are! I think it’s fun all the way around and I’m so glad those women are doing something they enjoy!
JUST mentioned this phenomena to my husband this last week – we’re evangelical Christians. Your answers provide a lot of insight but what about this added thought from an outsider:
For a significant part of their history, the LSD have been pretty counter-cultural (new revelation, forced pioneering westward, etc.) They seem to be swimming up stream against the typical from the beginning. Do you think this creates a culture that allows for and actually engages more creative thinking and productivity? Does the Mormon history of “having to make your own place in the world” translate into today’s “can-do” attitude that blossoms into entrepreneurial, creative enterprises like design blogs run by moms? In some sense, what you’re all doing is pioneering work.
So interesting, Hannah! I’m sure there’s validity in that thought.
I also read all the sisters blogs and found them all as they are all linked!
For a while there I was getting really down that all these young, talented ladies were super creative and stylish and on top of that already married and had many children (and here I am in my 30′s feeling hopeless trying to make this happen) – and then I realized you’re all Mormon… and thats normal for all of you!
so I can now get on with my own life and creativity and blogging on my time!
I really enjoyed reading your take on this phenomenon. Thanks to the
other commenters as well. I recently completed my masters thesis about
nesting practices of Mormon women and some of the ideas expressed in
this post really connect well with the research and analysis I have
done. In addition to the interesting theories here, I believe that the
LDS doctrine of creation is especially meaningful to women who have
the opportunity to create life through pregnancy, adoption, and
motherhood in general. We Mormons believe that the desire to create is
divinely appointed, so creating lovely goodness in our lives and
families is not only an outlet for the creative soul but also a
manifestation of godliness. I also think that the emphasis on our
unlimited potential helps us accentuate the positive and beautiful in
our own lives (as we portray them through blogging) and in the world
at large.
All good-intentions in mind, another source of all this crafty DIY
goodness is sometimes plain boredom! Domesticity includes hard and repetitive work. If I am feeling bummed, one quick fix is the pleasure of making something pretty with my own hands. A lot of daily living is meaningful in its mundane-ness (perhaps more than we usually appreciate), but it is sure fun to spice things up with a celebration or project or art that helps remind us that life is more than the sum of our meals made and dishes done.
Thanks for being a fabulous blogger!
I like your comment about spicing up the meaningful-but-mundane by making something pretty with your own hands. A lovely thought!
Nancy – thanks so much for your comments!
I would luv luv luv to hear more about your thesis…I’ve been working on an interior painting series about motherhood, women, teaching & learning together in the gathering places within the home, etc. While away for spring break, my husband and I spent time with some of our classmates from architecture school (3 of which were my roomies while on study abroad). We still have so very much in common in our dreams and goals, but I also realized that I don’t have the same professional drive I used to share with them. (I teach a little on the side, but am a SAHM to 3 full-time). My husband’s response was, “It’s ok, you’re just in the ‘nesting stage’ right now, thats all.”
His comment helped me generate more energy and understanding into my motherhood and creative work, and I would luv luv to hear more from you!
Gabrielle – as always, the perfect spokesperson for a curious topic!
ps. please forgive the off-topic comment…I’m not sure how to get in touch with Nancy (here’s my email: trinaberg@gmail.com)
Gabrielle, what I love most about Mormon mommy/design/lifestyle blogs is that they show that we are, by and large, happy people. And we find joy in what we’re doing, whether it’s motherhood, design, etc.–or a combination of those things. I find so much joy and inspiration from reading about other women who have the same beliefs and the same struggles that I do, and seeing how they are making the best out of their lives and their capabilities. There are so many great things/tips/tricks/ideas that I’ve gleaned from reading these blogs! I feel like I’m a better wife, mother, and believer than I would be otherwise–I always enjoy it so much when someone DOES mention that they’re a Mormon and shares a little testimony snippet, even just in passing (I often think, oh, no wonder I thought you were so neat! :-)
Really interesting topic. I agree with all of the guesses stated.
It got me thinking: I am Mormon and have a blog, why do I blog? I am as good as case study as any. (Just so there is no misunderstanding my blog is not professional or fancy.)
I guess I’d have to agree with Jordan’s point: I am an educated woman (BYU History major, English minor) who has chosen to stay home and raise my children. I use my blog as an outlet. As a way of saying to the world, “Although I prize my role and wife and mother, I am more than that. I am an interesting and interested. I have diverse pursuits and dreams and hopes. My choice to stay at home in some ways limits my interactions and education. I write and read blogs to broaden these aspects of my life.”
Gosh. Now I am thinking my blog should be a lot more highbrow than it is.
I think Jordan’s theory resonates with so many women. I love that! But I laugh, because it didn’t resonate with me personally at all. I always assumed I’d be a mother, but didn’t give it much more thought than that — I had so many other passions I wanted to pursue.
And now it turns out I have 6 kids and write about them for a living. Life is so odd!
Rolling with laughter it is so funny true. Get this I’m “mormon” as in LDS and would still love to study design/art at BYU but I live in Africa and am an only child and only have one child of my own. My hubby gave me my blog for Christmas 2009 as my creativity was exploding our home, wow my talents have sure found direction and purpose through the blog. I did not know DM was Mormon- um well hello nice to meet you enjoying the French adventure in my reader each day. Well thats all from this Mormon Mom born and bred in South Africa.
This so interesting…because I am one of the many that have had this same conversation. Being a Mormon, I think I am naturally drawn to others who are as well, but it has never been on purpose. There just seems to be a creative and positive feel to each and every one. I go to blogs that uplift me. And I do feel that so many large blogs are due to relation/featuring others. There is a definite connection with religion, and although it is never deliberate, it just IS. I also think it is largely due to social networking.
But, although I love these Mormon lifestyle blogs because of such praiseworthy things, they tend to make me feel inadequate at times because I AM a member of the church and not at all in the same place in life. I work TWO jobs (my full-time management and my part-time photography.) while my husband is in grad school, and so I am not a SAHM. And I envy the time that well…everyone seems to have, even with 4-6 kids! And I swear, there seems to be a fairy-tale type theme in every one (like moving to France, heehee). And I know that is not reality because life is not perfect, but I still have to watch my {sinful jealousy} because such creativity is what is mostly portrayed. And in turn, this positive life seen online is why I think Mormon Mommy Blogs are so popular.
eeek! That sounds so negative. I didn’t mean it too;) Obviously, I love this site and so many BECAUSE of the goodness and creativity that is shown.
I’m glad you brought this up, because I have definitely noticed this, too, mentioned it to my husband, and in talking with one of my sister-in-laws, realized that she, too, had noticed that a lot of the sewing/craft blogs she reads are written by LDS women.
I think it’s cool, because I grew up in North Dakota, where there seem to be very few Mormons. I grew up Lutheran (like many midwesterners!) and am now Congregational, but I completely appreciate “getting to know” you ladies, learning a bit about a part of religion that I had no clue about, and being inspired as a busy working mom (who is on super-bed rest working on cooking my baby rather than in her classroom as usual!)
So yes, I’ve noticed (and think it would be a cool sociological study, too!) and have been immensely inspired….thank you!
Michelle in Minnesota
(PS I ordered a Lesley Evers dress after you posted about them–beautiful, except I have to wait to wear it because my baby bump doesn’t fit…and for the Mad Men talk…it was both my husband’s and Vinnie Kartheiser’s bdays yesterday…my husband was at the hospital with me–preventing pre-term labor–Vinnie was not!)
I know, what IS up with mormon design blog, it is pretty much all I read! The ”do do do” theory of Emily struck me and I had read her entry already. It is inspiring to me to read about and see the beauty of things and especially of children, I have four little ones of my own and I need this. I do not know much about mormonism
I’m so glad that you brought this up! I noticed the “trend” some time ago and wondered about it too. I figured the church and schools did a great job of teaching you all how to balance marriage, motherhood and career AND how to do it with impeccable class and style. I even searched for e-courses on BYU’s website looking for help and answers :)
So funny to see this post right now because five minutes ago I was thinking the same thing.
So interesting that you posted this today. I am not Mormon, I can’t claim any faith really, this morning I wished to myself that I had grown up Mormon so I could be as hip and successful as all of the Mormon design/lifestyle bloggers that I read daily. Obviously a terrible reason to wish that, and I don’t want to demean your faith in any way shape or form. But darn it you’re all so talented!
The connection between being raised Mormon and the unending amounts of creativity was obvious to me. In my mind, Mormons = awesome design skills and high IQ’s (thanks to BYU’s great educational program).
Though the question of why so many Mormon women chose to journal publicly rather than privately I was still confuesd on. I attributed the speed of their blog’s success to the large LDS network and support from the same, after that it was all just pure talent. I had done some research back when I first realized the Mormon connection and came across this article that gave me a bit of insight to my question about why most new Mormom bloggers chose to journal publicly rather than in a private journal.
http://www.ldsliving.com/story/63793-lds-blog-stars
Elder M. Russell Ballard’s encouragement is working, and me and my appetite for reading, crafting, and all things design thank him.
Thanks for sharing your blog, familiy, and faith with us Gabby, and for opening up this conversation to your readers.
I don’t mean to say that all Mormon’s go to BYU. Just that all of the blogs that I follow that are written by Mormons current or Ex did attend BYU.
Thanks for finding that link. That’s what I was trying to communicate in my comment.
I, like almost every other commenter, have wondered the exact same thing; not just about design/lifestyle blogs but about most blogs. In fact, I even googled it yesterday! Imagine my surprise when I looked at the title of your post. I thought you’d zoomed in on my brain waves. Anyway, after pondering this question for a while and doing a bit of googling, I think it as an extension of genealogy and then from scrapbooking – modern day journaling and documentation. It is the Mormons who keep exceptional genealogy records and who started the scrapbooking craze, right? Please tell me if this isn’t correct. I’ve also always assumed that blogging is a way for Mormons to advance their religion as it is each Mormons’ responsibility to “preach through work and deed.” With the focus on missions, it seems that the Mormon church is a proselyting church. Although almost invisible on most blogs, my guess has always been that this is the underlying motivation behind why soo many Mormons blog. Obviously I don’t really know since I’m not a Mormon.
For me the bottom line is that the blogs (like this one!) are fantastic! Mormon, Jewish, Hindu or not, if the content is great I’ll thrilled!
Thanks, btw, for bringing up this sorta awkward topic. Seems many of us have been wondering. Thanks for taking the risk to share – xo
This is interesting…I’ve seen a lot of design blogs by mormons, and lots by people of other faiths. It seems like a lot of the design blogs are by Christians, whether Mormon or otherwise. Blogging in general seems to be very heavily dominated by Mormons, actually. I imagine it’s because of many reasons…as a homemaker and stay at home mom it’s a way to connect with others and also keep a journal of my growing family. And as for design, as a homemaker I have become more interested in design, especially home design. So maybe that has something to do with it…It seems that there are many more Mormon women who choose to stay home than those of other religions or faiths.
I don’t think it depends so much on religion. There are lots of women (myself included) that desire to only stay home and raise children (and be amazing a domestic and crafty). not mormon. and its not a reality for me and anyone I know if you live in an expensive city.
Thank you for posting this! I’ve noticed this over the years and have been fascinated by the tie between amazingly creative design bloggers/moms and their Mormon faith. Not a Mormon myself, it has made me wonder what the Mormon community is doing to create all of these cool bloggers. So thanks for the insight into the ideas. We were friends with a Mormon family growing up, and even back then I was amazed at all of the cool things they would do: homemade donuts after a sleepover, Santa Claus-suited Christmas cookie deliveries … just the sort of fun stuff that seemed to make things extra special. I only started thinking about those things after reading these blogs.
I didn’t read all the comments yet, but I think also the Mormon faith has such a strong emphasis on family and it follows naturally that having a strong and connected family means making a comfortable and attractive nest for them. I’m not Mormon, but I love the practice of Family Home Evenings and I’ve tried to institute that in my own Catholic family.
Family Home Evenings is genius. Sometimes it surprises me how much my kids adore it. But I shouldn’t be surprised, because I adored it too.
I love this post, Gabby. So interesting. As a fellow BFA Graphic Design graduate from BYU, I have to agree with your insights on this blog phenomenon. Not everyone knows how incredible, (and intense, yikes!) and well-respected in the design community the BFA Design program at BYU is. We all owe a lot to Adrian and Linda.
Personally, I blog more for the same reasons that your sister mentioned. I blog to maintain my own sense of myself. Even though I spend a lot of time nurturing my children and my husband, I don’t want to ever lose touch with all the other parts of me that make me unique and special. Creating (and blogging is an extension of that) feeds me, makes me happier, more joyful, and in turn, a better wife and mother.
Also, I blog because sometimes I just want to share my favorite book/recipe/poster/song/typeface with the rest of the world. =)
Thank you, thank you for your blog. You are a light and inspiration.
As a Mormon Lifestyle blogger, I think your observations are cumulatively correct. There’s got to be a lot that goes into it for each individual. I personally hate to cook, but it’s how I was raised, so I do it anyway. The beautifying things, on a nickel, is totally a big-family-Mormon thing. I was shopping at D.I. when it was so embarrassing I wanted to die; now it’s a hipster spot for Provo.
I like where this discussion is going actually, I think there’s a lot to it.
I am really enjoying everybody’s observations.
I have always assumed the creativity of my siblings came from creative parents, but I’m sure it didn’t hurt that we were a big family with limited resources — there definitely some Pretty In Pink prom dress moments.
Being design-oriented is a way of modernizing motherhood. We are still doing the things our mothers did for us, but we are going to do it our way. The things our kids wear, the food we cook, everything can be an expression of who we are. It is a way of meshing what it modern and cutting edge with traditional homemaking.
I think that’s so true, Siouxzy!
I’m so glad you addressed this topic! I had noticed an abundance of creative bloggers who identified themselves as Mormon. It’s interesting and fascinating to think about why that might be. I think it’s neat that so many hip, cool, chic moms are women of faith!
Perfectly put.
I didn’t take the time to read all the previous responses, so apologies if anyone else already made this point. I started reading blogs in 2006, and began to notice a prevalence of Mormon bloggers. At first is seemed strange to me, but as I’ve read the writing of a lot of Mormon bloggers over the years I’ve noticed a trend. Mormon families and the LDS community generally seem to really support the creative interests of those in their family or community. I never see/hear anything to suggest that children are told, “Sure, dancing/singing/painting/acting/creative-outlet-of-choice, is fun but you need to find a career.” If there isn’t a premium put on creativity, it at the very least isn’t discouraged. I think that makes a difference, and I think it correlates to Mormon bloggers, perhaps especially the mom’s, expressing their creativity in the online world.
“If there isn’t a premium put on creativity, it at the very least isn’t discouraged.”
That has me thinking, Jessica. Very interesting take on the topic.
This idea was exactly what I was thinking. I did lots of theater and dance when was younger, and it was not unusual for me to be surrounded by Mormons on stage (I grew up in Northern Colorado). Not only did many of these Mormon children seem to have much more parental support for their creative goals, the Mormon adults also seemed committed to having creative outlets in their own lives even if they had no intention of being a professional creative.
I noticed this trend in deign blogs awhile ago but never wondered why. It just seemed like a natural extension of the way Mormons seem (to this outsider) to place a high value on creative pursuits in general.
The church (people and what they do) is not perfect, you are right about that. However, the gospel is. There is a difference between the two.
I should have phrased this as a question to you. Does the religion(principles and values) drive you bonkers, or rather some of the people and their behaviors?
Great question, Rachel. I’ll respond via email so we can keep the comments on topic.
I found this post intriguing, as I’d noticed the trend, but hadn’t really thought about it. But I was left with the same question Rachel asks.
Same here. This post got me thinking about the 13th Article of Faith in a different way – about “things” – but then I got to the end. Oh, it irks me. :) Sorry! I’ve always been a huge fan, but now I feel like you might be apologizing for your beliefs? It just makes me kind of sad that you wrote, ” My religion is far from perfect — there are aspects of it that drive me bonkers. But I particularly love this part of it.” I think that there are too many people out there that will take this out of the wrong way. I think maybe this is too personal to reveal on a blog that so many non-LDS people read. I love what Rachel wrote above. The Gospel is perfect, the “church” is not. I don’t know. I’m just a little upset by this post now. Sorry, Gabrielle! I’m hoping you didn’t mean it in the way it came off.
Oh wow, I was actually delighted to see Gabby admit this. We all have issues with, or at least questions about, some elements of our faiths. I’m not a Mormon, and while I’m not interested in converting, I think presenting yourself as a people who work though those questions and issues is much more appealing than keeping up an image of perfect faith that a lot of us can’t relate to.
you have a wonderful blog- you really do… and I would be so excited to be in your position where I can do what I love and spread so much good about the gospel. because of blogs- I think LDS mom’s are so much better understood and their is a respect there that wasn’t easy to come by before. I’d be curious of your response to these questions… because I agree with Rachel- the gospel really is perfect- not the people (which can sometimes effect the way certain things are are communicated). This gospel makes me so happy- the more I live it- the more happy I become.
I was wondering the same thing as Rachel.
It’s true what you say about the Graphic Design program at BYU, I’ve had some amazingly talented friends graduate from that program. A thought provoking post indeed, thanks Gabby.
Thanks for addressing this! I have noticed and wondered about this quite a bit. All your theories sound plausible. It has given me personally a greater appreciation for those following Mormon faith/lifestyle…as it seems to produce some incredible, creative, talented women.
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