Meeting the Queen — By Guest Mom Amy of Progressive Pioneer

Yesterday Annette, from Hansen Hives, stopped by to check on our queen bee and make sure she'd gotten out of her box alright. We had 6,000 bees delivered last week! There is something so magical about having this fortress of sweet, humming productivity buzzing away in the corner of our yard.

Annette said the bees will fill up the bottom box within a month. Then they add one more, which when filled will be their winter food storage (clever bees!) and then anything on top of that is for us!



Once Annette found the queen bee, she put her in this little cup with plastic mesh on top and she painted a yellow dot on the queen's back so she'll be easy to locate.



The bees had already started building out honeycomb. When you peeked into the hive you could see them strung out like little trapeze artists, clinging to each other's legs, creating a living bee chain. It was the cutest thing.

If you live in the Salt Lake area, definitely check out Hansen Hives. You can host a hive while Aaron and Annette maintain it, until you feel comfortable enough to take over, at which point you can buy it from them; brilliant!

Central Park Photo Shoot Details

The feedback on the family photos in Central Park has been wonderful. Thank you! I promised a followup post with more details and I'm ready to deliver.

How it Came About
Candice Stringham (the Brooklyn-based photographer) contacted me a few weeks ago. She teaches online photography classes and wanted to build her family photo portfolio for an upcoming class. So she offered to take photos of my family in Central Park. I took a peek at the work on her blog, thought it was fantastic and said: yes, please.

Candice liked the idea of doing either a pastel English tea inspired color scheme, or a more colorful Kate Spade/Crewcuts inspired color scheme. She pulled Brenda Barrett Taylor on to be the prop stylist and they decided to go with Kate Spade/Crewcuts. My assignment was to come up with outfits in this color palette: navy blue, crisp white, grass green, cherry red and mustard yellow. I didn't keep to the palette in every case (my skirt is royal blue, for example), but I did my best to keep to their vision.

While I took care of the clothes, Brenda and Candice provided all the props. The picnic. The teacups. The books. And the cupcakes from Magnolia Bakery. Brenda is an incredible stylist. It was a treat to get to see her in action.


What We Are Wearing
I worked hard on the outfits. Dug through closets. Borrowed, begged, bought. Recruited friends to help shop. Overbought just in case. Kept tags on anything new until I knew exactly what we were going to use. I used my bedroom floor to gather outfits as they came together and get a sense of what colors we still needed more of. The night before the shoot I had the kids try on different options until we narrowed it down.

We brought additional clothing to the shoot in case the photographer wanted to mix things up — a mustard jacket for me by JCrew, a green check button down for Ben, etc. But we ended up shooting in exactly what we were wearing. Amazingly, we didn't need to buy that much. And everything we did buy is very useable.

Betty wore an adorable dress from Ses Petities Mains. It wasn't new (she's owned it since December), but it still looks great. Her red cable sweater is by Ralph Lauren, a hand-me-down from a friend. Her yellow sandals are by Salt Water Sandals, from Zappos.

Oscar wore plaid shorts and a blue oxford button down from Old Navy. His tie was picked up at Gymboree (score: $6!). I actually had a different tie picked out for him with wide, diagonal mustard and navy stripes. But he wouldn't wear it. The one he did wear worked out just fine. His shoes were picked up last summer, classic boat shoes by Perry Topsider.

Olive wore a white eyelet skirt by Ralph Lauren, borrowed from my friend Kathryn Carmona. Her mustard shoes are also borrowed from Kathryn. They are European and beautiful. I can't remember the maker — Kathryn, if you're reading, please share. They were actually a size too small for Olive, but she manned up and wore them anyway for the photo shoot — without complaint I might add. Olive's red stripe shirt is several years old from Old Navy. Her red flower was a lucky last-minute addition. I picked it up at H&M last summer.

Maude wore a gorgeous mustard jacket from Ismodern. On sale. Grab one while you can. The dark denim skirt she made herself at sewing class last summer. Her red stripey socks were borrowed from Ralph — all stripey socks in the photo are from H&M, and were found in Ralph and Oscar's stockings this past Christmas. The flower headband was made by Olive last Christmas as a gift. Edit: Forgot Maude's shoes — purchased at Target last month in the boy's shoe department.

Ralph wore a green Lacoste polo shirt. Found at Lord & Taylor. Pricier than I would normally go for a polo shirt, but it was 25% off and was the exact perfect green. His navy blazer is by Gymboree (another score: $18!). His jeans he already had from H&M. His sneakers were new — but weren't bought for the photo shoot, he just needed new sneaks. By Adidas, from Zappos.

I wore a blue lamp-shade pleated skirt from Banana Republic. I already owned this. The white shirt is from H&M, also already owned by me. The green cardigan was bought for the shoot and was found at Old Navy. Edit: Forgot my shoes — I bought the adorable gingham peep toes at TJ Maxx last summer, I believe the brand is called Unlisted.

Ben wore BR jeans he already owned. Lacoste sneakers he already owned. A tie he already owned. We picked up the blue check button down at Old Navy.


What The Shoot Was Like
The shoot was 90% awesome and 10% Oscar throwing tantrums. But really, the kids were great. Candice was patient. The weather couldn't have been better. The whole shoot took about 2 hours but felt like a few really wonderful minutes.

I said it before, but I have to say it again: I couldn't be more pleased with how the photos turned out. A perfect souvenir of New York for my family. Thank you Candice and Brenda!

Moving Day

It is here.

It is really here!

Moving day.

The Mayflower packing crew came yesterday morning. They came armed with a truckload of moving supplies and whipped the house into shape in less than 3 hours. When things were winding down, we sat around the kitchen table drinking soda and swapping the best moving stories we'd heard/experienced. No surprise: the crew's stories were better than mine. Long Island is a fascinating place, my friends.

There was something so energizing about having the packing crew arrive. Like it was finally game time. And decisions had to be made now or never. I loved it.

When the packers were driving away, Mayflower's quality control rep dropped by to make sure everything was in order for today. And Diane called twice to see how I was doing and how things were progressing. I felt very taken care of.

Although I've been working like crazy to get ready, there were a couple of rooms I wasn't quite prepared to get fully packed up yet. So I asked them to leave some moving boxes and I finished up last night while Ben Blair cycled through the rest of the laundry. (Have I told you lately how wonderful Ben Blair is? And sexy.)

Today is the loading. There are about 1 billion boxes. But today's moving crew guesstimated we'd be over and done before the kids get home from school at 3:15.

They'll come home to an empty house.

We'll say our goodbyes.

Blow kisses to our bedrooms.

Wave at Quanta (the grassy area at the end of the street that my kids named after they watched Bridge to Terabithia).

Then we'll pile into the car and drive to JFK.

We'll stay at a hotel nearby and fly out early tomorrow morning.


My last day in New York. Au revoir, mon ami.

Artisan Bread at Home — by Guest Mom Amy of Progressive Pioneer

There's something meditative about breadmaking that I absolutely love; the slow process of yeast developing, the rhythmic kneading, the suspense of waiting to take it out of the oven, perfectly browned. Up until recently, however, eating my whole wheat bread was less a zen experience, and more an exercise in patience as one chewed their way through a doorstop disguised as bread.

All that changed when I met Peter Reinhart. Okay, so we haven't actually met, but I feel a certain kinship as I've read his book cover to cover and it's now stained and marked as any well-loved cookbook should be.

All his recipes are 100% whole grain. He works with the properties of the grain with amazing results. Don't be intimidated by the two day process; it's really just as easy, if not easier that the regular method; much less kneading involved. And he's got everything from a simple sandwich bread to whole wheat bagels and cinnamon rolls.

Also, it may just be a rumor, but I've heard that Artisan Breads in Five Minutes a Day is coming out with a whole grains version... I've got my fingers crossed!

Nie Nie

Friends. I'm certain you are all reading Nie Nie Dialogues. But if you're new to this space and haven't discovered Stephanie yet, go read this. And then cry a little. And then send a little prayer of strength and hope up for Nie Nie.

Central Park

The family pictures in Central Park turned out beautifully. Candice Stringham, the photographer, was incredible. Lots of patience. Great style. Flexible. A delight to work with. If you're in New York — or anywhere near New York — book her right away. For reals.

I know preparing for a family portrait can be stressful. What will everyone wear? Will the kids behave? Will I look hot? : ) Leading up to our photo shoot, there were several times I was tempted to cancel — we're just so busy right now. But I am beyond happy that I have these photos now. What a treasure for our family! Worth every bit of time and effort.

And I can't even put into words how wonderful it was to spend an afternoon-with-perfect-weather in our beloved park before the big move. I'm going to get all weepy just thinking about it.

By the way, you should totally check out this photo series by Candice — so charming!

Edit: Thanks for all the great feedback! Per your requests, there is a post about how the shoot and the wardrobe came together here.

Aprons

Doesn't this make you want to go give the kids a bubble bath right this minute? You can find the apron at Epicurean Style.

Going Green — by Guest Mom Amy of Progressive Pioneer

There's a certain morning ritual that has me so hooked I almost can't start my day without it. Not coffee, but green smoothies. Because the appearance can be a bit alarming, you really have to try it before you pass judgment. The basic recipe at our house is this:

-Half a banana
-A handful of blueberries (add enough to make it tasty)
-Several handfuls of fresh spinach
-Enough water to make it drinkable
-And that's it!

I promise it tastes great; spinach blends really well with fruit. And it's SO good for you! Once you get that down, you can get fancier with strawberries, carrots, oranges, melon, peaches, fresh coconut and pineapple; there are a million yummy possibilities!



Tiffany of Naturemoms.com puts her green smoothies in popsicle molds as treats for the kids. We love these Tovolo rocket and star molds (ours were a wedding gift!). Mixing spinach with yummy fruit in a rocket pop just might have your kids begging for their greens!

TweeCards

These cards from TweeCards have put a grin on my face. Who doesn't love a good balloon animal?

City Chicks — by Amy of Progressive Pioneer

Maybe it's the economy or a greater awareness of where our food comes from, but backyard chickens seem to be everywhere. We jumped on the bandwagon and were pleased to discover that Nellie and Rockefeller, our Plymouth Barred Rock and Araucana, practically take care of themselves. They're the perfect pets. I've loved watching our sweet babe watch "his" chickens as they grew from little fluff balls to the brazen teenage chicks that now stroll the yard. At only a year he's learned to feed them, how to pat them gently and he's learned to love them. He has a special laugh he reserves just for their antics. Come August or September they'll be gifting us greenish-blue and speckled brown eggs every morning.


If building your own coop sounds intimidating check out these sleek options from Omlet, a British company that has recently started selling their adorable Eglu hen houses state side.

Welcome to Amy Thompson.

So. The weekend was gorgeous. And terrific. I will report with pics a bit later. But friends, I have hit a wall of exhaustion that is about to do me in. My goal for today: work in a nap. I've got to stay strong — it's Move Week! Woot!!

Luckily, I've got a Guest Mom to help me out with posts for the next few days. Hooray! Her name is Amy Thompson. And I don't know a thing about her except that I really wanted her to be a Guest Mom. And she said yes. Here's a short bio about Amy:

I spend my days with sweet baby Sam. We feed the chickens and watch them hunt for bugs. I'm often in the kitchen, up to my elbows in flour; he explores our tiny yard, a vast universe to his fresh eyes. I love making things, from chocolate truffles to reupholstered footstools. I like the challenge and the satisfaction that comes with creating. I made a brief foray into the corporate world, but find much more satisfaction, if less accolades (except from my sweet husband, my #1 fan) in my life as a stay-at-home mom. I write about these small adventures, about living lightly and naturally to the best of our ability, and about the joy, satisfaction and peace that comes from this simple, sweet life at Progressive Pioneer.

Welcome Amy! We're so glad you're here and can't wait to learn from you this week.

Giveaway — Two Baby Star Totes

Friends! Today's Giveaway is double the fun. Two winners will each receive a Rock the Tote diaper bag from Baby Star. Fabulous! Why I like them: they were designed with room and pockets for everything I need to carry — including a laptop. Plus, they come with a matching changing pad and wipe case. All Baby Star products are PBA-free, formaldehyde-free and AZO-free. I don't even know what all that means, but it's reassuring none-the-less. The totes retail for $88 each.

Oh! Extra-bonus: get a generous 30% off(!) at Baby Star by using the code 20twinkle09.

Winners get to pick from lots of patterns and metallics — I think my favorite is four square blue. Leave a comment to enter and have a fantastic weekend. I'll post the winners on Monday.

Congratulations to Rob, Michelle and Luke Greer and Maline — you are the lucky winners! Please send me an email with your shipping address and bag pick.

Seeing the Everyday Magazine

One of my favorite magazines, Seeing the Everyday, just relaunched their website. Take a peek. This is a quarterly magazine with no advertisements. It is beautiful to read and beautiful to look at.

If you're not already a subscriber, this is what you should request for Mother's Day. You will not be disappointed. Seriously. It is so good. I can't believe how happy it makes me to see a new issue waiting in my post box.

Considering Others — by Guest Mom Beth Longtine

One of the most expensive elements of a wedding is feeding everyone. To stay within your budget, consider simpler faire, or decrease your guest list, like we did. As I said before, good food was a priority for my son and daughter-in-law, so the option was cutting down the numbers. And. If you have great friends who want to help, ask if they are willing to help serve. We cut down on two servers by enlisting willing friends, and it made it so much more fun to have them there.

Be considerate of your guest’s limitations. Consider limiting the number of showers you invite people to, as it can often be a burden to purchase these extra gifts. Be sure to include inexpensive options on your gift registry, or express to your guests that gifts are not essential. I am sure at least a few guests will breath a sigh of relief.
Also be aware of the financial burden you may be placing on your attendants. Between buying or renting clothes, travel expenses and buying gifts, a wedding can be a huge expense for them. If you can limit the cost in any way, it will be greatly appreciated.

Something to Remember: What most people want to carry away from your wedding is the memory of a happy couple, not the price tag.

Note from Design Mom: Thank you, Beth for all the economical ideas this week! Also. The picture at the top features the hip wedding favors that Gwen and Joel created. Mini moleskin notebooks tied with bakers twine and a label from Stuck they printed themselves — half the labels had an image of Gwen's hair, the other half of Joel's hair. So great!

Weekend Plans

Well. We're heading into our last weekend as New Yorkers.

I hesitate to tell you that I'm pretty much in tears every other hour or so these days. The hesitation is because I don't want to sound like I'm down about Colorado. I'm actually very excited for this change and love looking forward to our new life in Denver. At the same time, I'm still having a hard time saying goodbye. Yesterday, as I left a hair appointment with Donna at the Lemon Tree, I was a crying mess. At least my hair was hot. : )

But our weekend plans look good. Really good. Today, the whole family is part of a photo shoot in Central Park. More on that later. But I will say that Maude is wearing the honeycomb studio jacket pictured above. It's from Ismodern, and it is such a cool jacket. I hope its coolness is an indicator of how awesome the photos will be.

Then tonight, our dear friends the Wrights (you may remember their house tour here), are throwing us a grown-ups only farewell party. And I love them for it. A little birdie told me Ben Blair may be breaking out the guitar to perform some Neil Diamond. Crossing my fingers...

Saturday, we'll spend the day at Benton Brook Farm in Massachusetts. And then on Sunday after church, we'll picnic at Pepsico Gardens.

I hope your weekend is just as lovely. And I hope your weather looks as good as mine does right this minute. If you have any fun plans, please share — I love hearing about happy weekends.

Calling Cards

Yesterday, the older 3 kids went to school with a stack of keep-in-touch calling cards to hand out. The cards list twitter handles, blog urls, email, skype names — everything but a phone number. My favorite were the titles they picked out: Kids Film Expert, Ballerina, and Girl Extraordinaire.

How to Make A Baby

Keith of MiniModerns sent me a link to this video. So great!

Wedding Clothes — by Guest Mom Beth Longtine

With fours daughters it’s a given that I have sweated the whole wedding dress issue. How in the world were we going to be able to buy each of them a dress they love? Well, I am sweating no more. Seems as though the fashion industry has realized that not all women want to spend a mint on a dress they will wear once. Many designers, department stores and even bridal shops are introducing lines of dresses that cost significantly less than what was typical just a few years ago; most in the $200-500 dollar range.

So who’s making my heart sing? J. Crew, Dillards, Nordstrom, David’s Bridal and even Target. Something to remember: The style of these wedding dresses are less fitted than more expensive ones, but may still require some alterations. My daughter-in-law's J. Crew gown came in an amazingly small box, so be prepared for lots of wrinkles (but it steamed beautifully!).

At our wedding, my son and daughter-in-law chose not to have attendants, a significant cost savings. However, if you do choose to have bridesmaids, I’ve noticed a trend that I think is fantastic. Brides are asking their attendants to pick out a dress in a certain color, but in a style of their choosing. This allows your friends to find a dress that suits their taste and price range, including the option of borrowing a dress if need be!

Manhattan

Knowing how homesick I already am for New York, Katie sent me a link to this great map of Manhattan designed by Jim Datz. Available at Three Potato Four.

Beleaf Tees

These t-shirts from Beleaf are good-looking little reminders of things kids (and grownups) can do everyday. Like "I recycled a cardboard box and built a fort today" and "I walked to school to save gas today."

Sure to be the favorite: "I didn't take a bath to save water today."

Water Bottles. Rethunk.

You know what else I think about on Earth Day? Water bottles. These light-weight, reusable plastic ones made by Bio-Green are new. And completely bio-degradable. Made in the USA. 5 different colors. A legitimate alternative if Sigg isn't your thing.

Reuse and recycle (or borrow if needed) — by Guest Mom Beth Longtine

These days we hear a lot about going green, and that emphasis is beginning to hit the wedding industry as well. Many are trying to encourage less waste and to recycle when possible. The best way to go green? Use what you already have, and try to buy what you know you will use again.

So what did we reuse? Previously owned white serving dishes were used on the dessert table, and a black, tiered stand was painted white to fit in. A long-owned wooden tray got a coat of red, and was used to hold favors. A banner was made out of an old book catalogue. Real dishes and linens were used for dinner. From friends we borrowed beakers for the flowers, place-card holders, the photo backdrop, and cameras for the photo booth. And I could go on…



Something to remember: Friends love to help, just be careful not to ask too much of them. One item or task per person is enough to make them feel a part of the day, without making them feel taken advantage of.

photos from Holly Hoyt Photography

Earth Day Spring Cleaning

Happy Earth Day, friends! (And Happy Birthday to my brother Salem, too!!) I just finished up the deepest cleaning my kitchen has had since we moved in to this house 4 years ago. I wore my Method "Cleans Like A Mother" t-shirt to psyche me up for the big job. And it was a big job. I even recruited Irene to come help me. We're talking deep, deep cleaning here. As in under-the-fridge cleaning. As in scrubbing the screen door cleaning.

The idea is to have the harder tasks done before move day, so that as the Mayflower truck drives away next Wednesday, there will only be wiping down walls and sweeping floors left to do. Wish me a wish that all will go as planned.

Of course, all the cleaning products had me thinking Earth Day as well — and my attempts to go non-toxic in our home. I was feeling great about my Mrs. Meyers and Method and Watkins products (I love the Watkins packaging with all my heart). And not so great about my fume-y oven cleaner.

Baby steps, ladies. Baby steps.

What are your favorite eco-friendly cleaning products?

Last Weekend

We continue to say our goodbyes and pack in as much of the city as we can. Here's a quick report on the weekend's adventures.

Thursday night I attended a Yann Tiersen concert with Katherine Kaneko at The Fillmore. I'm guessing about 75% of the audience spoke French — so the eavesdropping was extra lovely. Before the concert we ate dinner at Bar Blanc and stopped in at Bigelow Apothecary. Also. Yann Tierson was fun, but we liked the opening band even more.





On Friday, as soon as the kids hopped off the school bus, we went straight to the NY Botanical Gardens and spent the afternoon. Playing in the children's garden. Watering new plants at the family garden. Riding the tram. Walking the forest path. And playing in the fountain. The Botanical Garden has been one of our favorite spots and it was looking especially lovely all done up in Spring blossoms. It was hard for me to walk away.

That night, Ben and I joined friends at Freeman's for dinner. To get to Freeman's you walk down a funky little alley and through ginormous wooden doors. It's a really cool space that attracts some really hip company. The food was delicious. The weather was perfect. It was just one of those magical nights.



On Saturday morning, Ralph spoke at his friend's baptism. He did a great job — was a very confident and eloquent speaker. That night, Ben Blair and I saw comedian Demetri Martin in Tarrytown, followed by dinner at a local Greek diner. Demetri's show was terrific, but I got the feeling that most of the crowd hadn't finished high school yet. So I'm not sure what I think about that. When dinner was over, we realized it was only 10:00 and we weren't ready to go home yet so we drove to Pinkberry on the Upper West Side and indulged our sweet tooth.

Sunday was the usual loveliness of church and family. It was pretty much the best weekend ever.

Venues — by Guest Mom Beth Longtine

With my son’s wedding we started out with a bigger plan than we ended up with, but the economy reared it’s head, and we pulled back. Way back. We went from a 100+ wedding, to 45 nearest and dearest. Which meant we had to rethink the venue because the ballroom we had reserved was a bit much for that many people. But our cost went down too, from over $150 an hour (which is still pretty cheap), to a university campus lounge for $35 an hour — and the view was amazing.

So how do you find alternative venues? Get online. See what your city, local university, community or religious centers have to offer for events. Often they are not trying to make a profit, so they cost significantly less. I know a couple that wanted lots of friends, but couldn’t afford much, so they held their wedding reception at a local park shelter. Another friend got a great deal on a reception at a local hotel because they were undergoing renovations (that meant some minor inconvenience).



Something to remember: With cheaper venues, it usually means less service, so you are going to need family and friends to get into the action. Just be sure you are organized, so you don’t place too much burden on them. Our family helped frost the cupcakes, arrange flowers and set up the reception; and we talked and laughed the whole time.

images by Justin Hackworth

Handknit Layette

The handknit layette at Zia & Tia has me all baby hungry. Gorgeous, right?

Simple Weddings — by Guest Mom Beth Longtine

We spend a lot of time in our house looking at wedding blogs, and we definitely have our favorites. Yes, maybe it has something to do with my being a wedding coordinator, but honestly I think it’s because I have four daughters. We all love to dream about weddings, and look at the lovely photos.

But if you are anything like us, we often come away feeling like the “perfect” wedding comes at a pretty high price (so how much does it cost to rent 20 chandeliers to hang from the trees?). As a wedding coordinator I have found high-end weddings to be the rarity, most people simply can’t afford more than the basics. And during tough economic times, how much do we really want to spend anyway? Can’t we have an inexpensive and lovely wedding? I think so.

The first step is establishing what is important to you on that day. What are the essentials? A small group of loved ones? A large group of family and friends? A great party? A religious emphasis? Going in with a plan can help you navigate the process more peacefully as you will be able to ignore whole categories of things the bridal magazines insist are essentials. My son and daughter-in-law recently got married and our focus was simple: build a marriage, tell a story, and spend as little money as possible. Oh yeah…and the food had to be great.

Stay tuned this week as I share a few thoughts on how to put together a simple, but beautiful wedding — and know that the same techniques and ideas could be applied to any event.

Note from Design Mom: in the mood for more wedding stuff? Check out Wide Open Spaces. She spent all of last week reporting the details of her incredibly lovely wedding. Also, I found the gorgeous balloon garland photo on Wide Open Spaces via Oh Joy via Tiara Mia.

Hello Beth!

I've had a string of amazing Guest Moms lately and the trend continues this week with Beth Longtine. Hello Beth! My life intersected with Beth when my kirtsy partner, Gwen Bell, married Beth's son, Joel Longtine. We had exchanged a few emails and I knew I liked Beth, but when we met at the wedding I was even more impressed — with her talented and beautiful family and with her ability to throw a fab party on a tight-budget. So I asked Beth to share a few ideas this week for those of you who love to throw parties — wedding parties or otherwise.

Here's a little bio about Ms. Longtine: Beth is the mother of seven children and a "Day of" wedding planner. Those two things might seem unrelated, but raising all those kids has it's benefits. Like training in: organizational skills, helping others find their vision, calm in the midst of storms, and developing a keen eye for all things frugal. Good skills for a wedding planner too. Her goal? "Helping couples plan their weddings so it is as peaceful and fun during the process as it should be on the big day. Because it's the building of a marriage that counts the most."

You can keep up with Beth at her blog, Where's The Veil?

Circus Party

Aren't these invitations for a circus party adorable? They were designed and created by Caroline of Armelle Jewelry. You can see more invite details here and pics from the party here.

Lasers Are My Friends

Friends. Have you ever been so happy with a shop or a company that you wanted to dedicate a blog post to them? Me too. So this post goes out to my favorite hair removal establishment. Cross-my-heart I haven't been paid a dime to write this. I just want to give my CB peeps a shout out.

I first walked through the doors of Completely Bare last summer, when I made an appointment for a bikini wax. I picked CB because it was voted the Best Hair Removal shop in the area by a local magazine and I liked that the offices were clean and hi-tech — they sort of reminded me of the vibe you get at Clinique Cosmetics. When any sort of hair removal is involved, I much prefer a super-clean, doctor-like feel over a zen/herbal sort of place. I need to be confident the technician knows exactly what they're doing.

While I was there chatting things up with Jenn, we started talking about laser hair removal. And how easy it was to maintain. And what an overall time saver it was. I'd been curious for quite awhile about laser hair removal, so I took the plunge, took advantage of their 50% off sale, and switched my waxing appointment to a series of 6 laser appointments.

I've just completed my series. Conclusion: I've decided that I would go back to Completely Bare in a heart beat. The staff is lovely to work with. Very responsive to questions. They have convenient appointment times, including evenings, which worked better for my schedule. I was always shown right into my appointment as soon as I arrived — I never had to wait. And the best part. They did such of good job of making me feel comfortable and at ease, when (let's be honest) there is nothing comfortable or easy about a technician and your vajango interacting.

During the very first appointment, I remember asking: But what if doesn't work? What if it's not effective on my particular body? In reply, Jenn answered: We're going to make sure you're happy. I promise. And they totally did.

You can find Completely Bare storefronts in 6 different locations. For those of you that are in or around New York, I highly recommend them. For those of you that can't get to Completely Bare, take a peek at their line of products. You can also keep up with CB on their blog.

Happy Weekend

This morning I was browsing through my delicious page and found tons of links I've been meaning to share with you. Here's to some good weekend exploring á la A Cup of Jo and Rocks in My Dryer:

-Take a peek at this scanned in sketchbook by Amy Kligman. Someday I want to create something like this for no other reason than to go through the process. Thanks for the link, Summer.

-This open-plan kitchen that I spotted on Café Johnsonia has me coveting.

-My brother Jared posted photos and video of his epic Haute Route adventure on flickr. I'm intimidated by his coolness.

-This pretty, new-to-me-blog has been added to my bookmarks: A Merry Mishap.

-Travis sent me a link to this essay about another family who has recently relocated from NY. Really good.

-Prediction: the next blog to take off like Stuff White People Like will be this one. It's showcases very serious critiques of children's artwork.

-A new take on the family portrait. Have a mini documentary made of your family instead by an award-winning cinematographer.

-Buy used books to fund world-literacy.

-Spotted on kirtsy. Michael Jackson is selling off his belongings. Including the Sequined Glove.

-Liz pulled off a dining room makeover for $400.

-Did you see this post on Real Simple about using cloth and starch in lieu of wallpaper? I'd like to try this.

-Tonic says that for $20 they will stop the stream of junk mail that fills your mailbox each day. Has anyone tried this?

-Clear instructions for DIY tablecloth.

-Your photo on a silk scarf — is this so tacky it's cool?

Hey friends. One more thing. If you'd like to advertise in my sidebar, send me an email. I have great rates designed especially for small vendors. Options start at just $75.

The one thing I hope you remember — by Guest Mom Amy Smart

Motherhood is good work — the best kind — but it’s work nonetheless. And sometimes it feels totally overwhelming.

Having a creative outlet is the aspect of my life that has kept me sane. Sounds cliché, but it’s true. It’s therapeutic for me to have some short-term creative projects in the midst of the long-term creative process of raising children.

I have a feeling this may be the first time Dolly Parton has ever been quoted on Design Mom, but it’s always good to break new ground, right? I recently found these lyrics and they spoke to me.

It takes all I’ve got to give what life demands.
You’ll go insane if you give in to it,
Life’s a mill and I’ve been through it,
I’m just grateful I’m creative with my hands.

So here’s the one thing I hope you remember from Amy Smart: Find something you love to do and do it.

Not because you want to get a bunch of new comments on your blog, or because you want to become the next Martha, or because you want to win a blue ribbon at the state fair. But because it feeds some part of you that needs feeding.

Just don’t try to do it all. You’ve really got to narrow your focus. For right now, I’ve narrowed it down to one thing.


And I set up shop in the middle of the family room with the kids buzzing around me. I try to avoid using the computer when they are around because I don’t like the thought of them just looking at the back of my head. But I do sew with them around. (This doesn’t mean there aren’t frequent interruptions and occasional balls thrown at my head or Hot Wheels cars driving across my back). I like them seeing me do something artistic, and I’ve seen the way it affects my kids’ creativity.


In the meantime, I totally enjoy admiring the work of other women. Especially when they do something I don’t do. Don’t feel guilty or compare what you do to what other people do. Enjoy the beauty they create as well.

So, pick your thing. And love it. Whether it’s baking a loaf of bread, or playing the piano, or doing Pilates, or knitting socks, or digging in the dirt. Nourish your soul. Then you can better nourish the little souls that live with you.

Thanks again to Gabby for letting me come hang out this week and to all of you for your encouraging comments. I’d love to hang out with you more in the future, so drop in for a visit!

Paper Toys

I keep thinking about the Paper Toys I wrote about for Cookie last week. I really want this book/kit.

Yann Tiersen

Tonight I have a date with Katherine Kaneko. She is endlessly interesting to talk to and I never get enough time with her. We are going to see Yann Tiersen. I don't know anything about him except that he did the music for Amelie but I'm quite sure I'm going to love the concert despite my inexperience. We are hoping to get away early enough to eat dinner first. Crossing my fingers.

Katherine once dropped by my house the same afternoon I discovered a lice infestation on my daughter's head. She didn't flinch or squirm once while I searched for nits, and even helped me try to carry on normal conversation so I didn't completely go nuts. She is the best sort of person.

I heart a night out with a friend. What are you doing this evening? Anything lovely?

How to make a messenger bag in 32 minutes — by Guest Mom Amy Smart

Today I want to share another simple, beginning sewing project you can make with your kids or for yourself. This is what we are giving our friends for birthday presents this year. It’s even cool enough for boys because it’s a messenger bag (not to be confused with a man purse!).

Come visit me here to learn how. I promise that you can do this in about 30 minutes. Maybe a little more if you’re still getting your sewing groove on, but you’ll feel like a pro when you’ve done it. We made this cowboy version Sunday afternoon. Even though I did all the sewing in this case, my 5-year-old felt immediately connected and proud of the bag after watching me make it for him. (Which he literally did every minute I was working.)

Smarin Design

My stylish friend Eliza sent me a link to Smarin. I'm fascinated by their products. I wonder if I will have a home where something like this might fit in. Which do you like more? The cloud-looking mobiles? Or the stone-inspired seating?



Wooly Pirate Hat

Spring here has been ridiculous. Far too cold to even call it Spring. Hats and coats are still required. I saw these hats at the Bubble Show and have been considering one for Oscar. They are made by Patouche of melton wool and lined in flannel with the intention of keeping a head warm. But they're styled like a pirate's hat so your child will love wearing it. Darling!

Check out Patouche's other wares as well. I heart the pocket apron skirt — it's straight out of Hansel and Gretel.

5 Easy ways to teach a girl (or boy) to sew — By Guest Mom Amy Smart

image credit, Amy Hackworth

I think sewing is another great method for kids to express themselves creatively. I love this thought of teaching our children to sew as a means of being a “stabilizer” in their lives expressed beautifully by former first lady, Grace Coolidge:

“Every girl should be taught to sew, not merely for the sake of making something, but as an accomplishment which may prove a stabilizer in time of perplexity or distress. Many a time when I needed to hold myself firmly I have taken up a needle (a sewing needle, some knitting needles, or a crochet hook.) Whatever its form or purpose, it often proved to be as the needle of the compass, keeping me to the course.”

So here are some ways to get them (or you!) started:

One fun way, especially with really young kids, is beginning-level lacing cards. The ever-popular eeBoo has some adorable choices.


If your kids are a little older and you want to make your own sewing cards, check out Marie’s patterns at Make and Takes.


In The Creative Family, Amanda Soule suggests simply giving your children some fabric in a sewing hoop, a needle and thread, and letting them go.

We’ve also had success with my daughter drawing a picture and taping it to the window. Then she lightly traces it onto plain fabric, and stitches over the traced lines. A very simple way to let them capture their art in another form.



For another very simple project to do with your kids, Oliver + S offers this free download for an easy child’s skirt. I am no expert at sewing clothes (still a little scared of zippers and sleeves) but this one is totally do-able. And cute.


Really, you can do this. And it doesn’t need to be perfect. Keep it simple, but at the same time, let them run with it. Don’t be afraid to let them (or yourself) make mistakes. Your kids will love anything they have a hand in, and it will give them a ton of satisfaction to see a finished product that they accomplished with their own hands. Hopefully it will do the same for you too!

Goodbye to Rockwood Hall & Brooklyn Bridge

We are trying our best to stay true to our calendar. Last week we walked the Brooklyn Bridge and ate at Grimaldis. We stopped in the middle to make a wish.



There was no line at the restaurant. A fact which I like to think of as a little goodbye gift from New York to the Blair Family.




We also said our farewell to one of our favorite walking parks, Rockwood Hall, situated on the banks of the Hudson River. The outings are invariably delightful. But I usually end up in tears for at least part of the visit. : )



Question: what would you wish for while standing in the middle of the Brooklyn Bridge?

Julian & Company

One of my favorite vendors, Julian & Co., has expanded their line to include photo lockets. Just in time for Mother's Day.

"Charmed, I’m sure": an easy way to avoid fabric overload — by Guest Mom Amy Smart

Hello, my name is Amy, and I’m a fabri-holic.

I love beautiful fabric. And there is SO much available right now. For someone who doesn’t sew, or even know where to begin, walking into a fabric store can be overwhelming. I’ve worked in a little quilt shop Saturday afternoons for the past 5 years and I’ve seen many a lost soul want to start a project, but have no idea where to begin.

There is a fantastic little product introduced recently by the fabric company Moda to help you with this problem. Charm Packs.



Traditionally, a charm quilt is a quilt that has no fabric repeats. Charm Packs include a single, pre-cut swatch of every fabric in a particular designer’s collection. There are numerous styles and color schemes — something for everyone. They come in 5” squares, ready to pick-up and start sewing for only $8. If you want to make a scrappy baby quilt, but don’t want to invest in lots of different fabrics, this is for you. You can go here for an easy charm quilt tutorial.


In addition there are other pre-cut options such as Layer Cakes (forty 10” squares) and Jelly Rolls (forty 2.5” x 42”) strips, rolled together beautifully. Moda also has a Bake Shop blog full of free patterns and tutorials. And not just for quilts. There are rugs, baskets, banners, etc.


This collection is called Arcadia. Here is a sample of the variety of patterns and color in one charm pack. The quilt below was made entirely from a Charm Pack, Layer Cake and Jelly Roll, and about 2 yards of solid orange. I love that all the fabric coordinates and is ready to sew with minimal cutting and waste.

Here are some other suggestions for these precut collections:



Bean bags. My 5-year-old son LOVED helping with this project (he funneled the beans in). And then he loved promptly throwing them at everything he could find.



Vanessa’s or Gabby’s banners.



This hoop framed fabric art from the Purl is so cool. I saw it when I visited their shop last May and I’ve been collecting hoops from thrift stores since then to make my own.

The possibilities are endless. What are your suggestions?

Recycled Boxes

The towers of boxes in my living room are by turn exhilarating (new adventure!) and overwhelming (so much work to do!). Diane at Mayflower told me to call her whenever I'm getting stressed out about the move — she promised to talk me down from the ledge — and now I've got her on speed dial. : )

Mayflower will be bringing boxes when they arrive to do the packing on the 28th. But it turns out I want to do as much of the packing myself as I am able to. I didn't know I would feel this way. I assumed I would want them to do all the packing. Every last Lego and barrette. But I've found that doing the boxing up myself is the ideal way to carefully go through drawers and closets and purge our belongings. And I have to say here, that purging feels good. Really good. If you come by my house and tell me you want something, I'm very likely to hand it to you. (Piano? Take it. Oscar? He's yours.) It feels that good.

At one point, I did go to Staples and pick up some bankers boxes to put our paperwork and files in. But I'm trying to gather used/recycled boxes for the rest of our belongings. Freecycle has been my best source — by providing either actual boxes or advice on where I can pick up used ones for free. In fact this morning, based on some freecycle advice, Ben Blair and I gathered a ton of boxes at Sound Shore Hospital (and apparently they have dozens on any given morning — who knew?).

Diane also recommended checking out places like U-Haul or self-storage shops if we end up needing to buy any specialized boxes because they usually have the best prices.

What about you? What are your best box sources?

Alphabet Prints

Good news. Binth's famous alphabet poster is now available as individual letter prints. Framed and ready to hang. I want to get each of my kids' initials. R M O B.

Why quilts are cooler than you think — By Guest Mom Amy Smart

I blame the 80’s for any negative stereotype of quilting. (What don’t we blame the 80’s for, with the exception of U2?) Too much powder blue and dusty pink. My goal with this post is to disprove that stereotype and broaden views on the utter coolness of quilts.

I love old quilts. I think they are fantastic. Vintage quilts are a fascinating art form that in many ways preceded the Modern Art movement of the 20th century by almost 100 years.



This one was made by Julia Ann Cantwell in 1881 in frontier Utah. I love that it was almost a purely female expression born of necessity and a medium women found to express their creativity using small pieces of the remnants of their everyday lives. I also love that this art form thrived most in adversity, whether during the Civil War, the pioneering westward movement, the Great Depression, or even more contemporary, in Gee’s Bend, Alabama.

Gee’s Bend is an isolated, rural community on a bend in the Alabama River. Most of the residents are the descendents of slaves that worked on the cotton plantations. The quilts of Gee’s Bend, created starting in the 1940’s up to now, mimic the modern art movement in cosmopolitan areas, and yet they were created in rural, impoverished isolation. Women created them out of necessity as a functional means of keeping their families warm. The quilts became an art form born of their poverty, using the little bit of excess they had. Since their collective discovery, they have been displayed at world-class galleries.

Here are a couple of my favorites:

Made by Martha Jane Pettway around 1945


And I love the description with this one:

“In the early 1990s, a former Bend resident living in Bridgeport, Connecticut, sent some garments — double-knit leisure suits — to Gee's Bend. Mary Lee Bendolph remembers: ‘My sister-in-law's daughter sent those clothes down here and told me to give them away, but didn't nobody want them. That knit stuff, clothes from way back yonder, don't nobody wear no more, and the pants was all bell-bottom. We ain't that out-of-style down here. I was going to take them to the Salvation Army but didn't have no way to get there, so I just made quilts out of them."

You can see more examples here and read about Gee’s Bend here.

Coming this week: some ways you can get your own sewing groove on.

Hello There Amy Smart!

Note from Design Mom: I'm delighted to introduce Amy Smart. Amy and I took French classes together back in the day. C'est vrai! When I ran into her at a kirtsy meetup in SLC, and found out she was a blogger too, I just had to invite her to be Guest Mom. You will love her! Here's an intro from Amy in her own words:

What a thrill to be hanging out at Design Mom this week! I love the way that Gabby captures the beauty to be found in mothering. I have four of my own kiddos and I know that motherhood isn’t always kisses and sunshine, but I also know the importance of inviting beauty into our lives.

This week I won’t even pretend to give you impeccable design tips, recipes, or advice on raising children to be Ivy League graduates. Instead, I’ll stick to the place where I do seem to get my mojo going — behind my sewing machine, and more specifically quilting.

For many years, I was a closet quilter. I started piecing quilts not long after I had my first baby and I enjoyed having a finished product to show for my time, besides the pile of used diapers at the end of the day. But I never really told anyone in polite society that I was a quilter — unless they were one too – because it seemed like such a ‘grandma’ thing to do.

Enter the blogosphere and the world of creative, amazing, inspirational women who also love to sew. And not all of them are even grandmas yet! So, after having a family blog mainly for the grandparents in Maryland, I decided to throw my own thoughts and projects into blogland and I started a sewing blog last fall. It’s not the swankiest blog, but it has been a great medium for sharing and meeting wonderful people who seem to like cutting up fabric into little pieces and sewing them back together as much as I do.

This week I hope I can introduce you — whether you’re a sewer or not — to some great products and ideas you can use yourself or with your kids.

Easter 2009

Here's a peek of our Happy Easter. Eggs were colored with craypas and markers (the only art supplies that aren't already boxed and ready to move. Didn't they turn out lovely?). Buckets were made at our church egg hunt. Wheat grass was grown in lots of small mis-matched pots.



Easter Sunday clothes were from all sorts of places. Ralph's ensemble was from Lord & Taylor. Maude and Olive wore dresses from Ses Petites Mains. Oscar's button down is from Children's Place, his tie from H&M. And Betty wore a vintage Easter dress — my vintage dress to be exact, circa 1978.

How was your holiday? Full of spring color and family and renewal, I hope.

Also. What do you like to do with all those boiled eggs? PBN has a fun contest going on right now and they want to know. Me? I heart egg-salad sandwiches.

Giveaway — Happy Easter

It's a big holiday week. Spring break. Passover. Easter. Everybody is celebrating. Grass is growing. Blossoms are on the trees. At our house, Easter is the holiday. So I'm wishing you Happy Easter with a Giveaway. Today's sponsor is Fawn and Forest, one of the prettiest shops on the web. The pretty prize they're offering is a 3-Piece Spring Package worth over $200.



1) An Amenity Blanket. Large size. Winner gets to pick from 4 different designs. Even this one.
2) A piece of clothing from the Periwinklebloom Collection. Again, winner's choice. Any one item. (I just discovered this line yesterday and I'm in love.)
3) An organic Rabbit Rattle that might be too precious to actually exist.

All three products have a wonderful feel — soft colors, organic materials, simple design. Plus, they work for little boys or little girls. Delicious. Leave a comment to enter. I'll announce the winner on Monday afternoon. Happy Easter!

Update. The lucky winner is Amber. Yay!

Easter Eggs

According to our calendar, we are supposed to dye some eggs today. I think we'll go with something super simple this year — maybe even skip the dying and pull out the markers instead. But I love seeing what everyone else is doing. For instructions on how to make these gorgeous nature dyed beauties, go here.

It's Even More Official

The other day, Lou from Mayflower came by to give us a moving estimate. He gave the house a thorough once over and the entire time I asked him question after question about the process. What do you do with the beds? Will the truck fit on our street? How would you recommend packing this artwork? How about this lamp? Bubble wrap or packing paper? How long does the packing process take? etc. We've been getting quotes from moving companies for weeks now.

The whole process can be pretty overwhelming. Some base the price on weight. Others base the price on volume. Some include packing. Others don't. Prices can vary widely — most of our bids came in within the same range, but one was over twice as much! Which makes me crazy.

Of all the bids we got, of all the companies we talked to, Lou was the only representative that offered some solid ways to save money on this move. Things like: if you ask your neighbors to move their cars when the big truck comes in, that will save you a big fee — because we won't have to use smaller trucks to transport your stuff to the big truck. Lou was clearly an expert. Had clearly been doing this a long time and knew all the secrets.

I think what I really liked about Lou (in addition to his patience with my questions), was that although he was representing Mayflower, a company with a nationwide trusted name, he was also part of what is essentially a local business, Molloy Brother's Moving. That's how Mayflower works — it's a network of local moving companies across the country that have access to Mayflower's national resources. I love that combo of small and big.

So friends. It's official. We're going with Mayflower. The truck is coming on April 29th. And we're flying out on April 30th. Having made this decision, my mind is already 30% more at ease.

Periwinkle Bloom

I just discovered the line Periwinklebloom. You might want to discover it too. You can find it at Fawn and Forest.

Easter Tree

Megan, the friend I attended the Martha Stewart taping with, has been putting the glitter she received to good use. Knowing my time is crunched this month, she made my family an Easter Tree — so that I wouldn't need to pull out the glitter myself in the middle of all the towers of boxes we're living with. I can't imagine a more thoughtful gift.




There are 7 eggs. Each one blown out, dyed, then glittered with a family member's initial. The tree was waiting on the table when the kids got home from school last week and they pretty much went crazy over it. The personalized eggs. Oh. And the Snickers. Thank you, Megan!

What have you done for Easter decorations this year? How are you dying your eggs?

Blue Poppy Jewelry

I just paid a visit to Blue Poppy Jewelry for the first time in several months. I found new treasures.

Tag Sale Shopping

Last Friday I spent half the day hitting tag sales and antique shops with my knows-how-to-spot-a-find, dear friend, Kathryn Carmona. From the first month we moved here, 8 years ago, Kathryn has been my go to source for the best tag sales, estate sales and garage sales in the area. She has an eye for great pieces, and keeps a running inventory in her head of any particular items her friends are looking for. If she spots something she knows you'll love, she'll pick it up on your behalf. I'm not sure how I furnished my house before knowing Kathryn and I wanted to make sure I got one more day of exploring with her before the big move.



As luck would have it, we started in Bronxville at an estate sale, and friends, this was the mother of all estate sales. A total score. We couldn't believe all the great stuff. I wasn't actually shopping (there's nothing like packing up your belongings to make you want to own absolutely nothing), but I did pick up the beautiful blue bottle pictured. How could I pass it up? It was big and tall. It had a B (for Blair) and it was only $4.

I took a lots of photos of our adventure — you can see them all on my flickr page. Thank your for a great day, Kathryn! I will miss our outings tremendously.

Do you frequent tag sales? What's your favorite consignment shop/second hand store/antique shop?

Makié

The collection of antiques, accessories and clothing (for moms too!) at Makié is making me smile today. I want this shirt. Thank you for the link, Alicia.

Color Fight

Did you see the color fight that my sister Jordan put on for her friend's birthday? It's the happiest thing I've seen in my whole life. Also. Jordan created some awesome (and inexpensive) bookworm party invitations. Find out how to make your own here. Also. My brother Jared is on an only-for-experts ski trip called Haute Route that takes him from Chamonix, France to Zermatt, Switzerland. It is mind-blowing to me. Check out some details here.

I love being related to interesting people.

Question: what kind of party would you throw where a color fight would be perfect? In other words, what's a good excuse to host a color fight?

House Tour

Remember when I posted about the textiles by Sisters Gulassa? Well. Lucky day for all of us — I've got more Sisters Gulassa for you. I posted a house tour featuring one of the Sisters (Cyrille) on Cookie's Nesting blog yesterday. Take a peek. It's a true artists home. Very inspiring.

Hallmark Event

I just posted one million photos of the Hallmark Event on my flickr page. About half of those pictures are of art supplies. They had a whole department dedicated to every art supply under the sun. It was like heaven.

At some point, one of the creatives described working at Hallmark as being similar to graduate school for art. They bring 1200 artists together under one roof and give them every opportunity to do their thing. Trend boards, inspiration boards and artistic displays were everywhere. Plus a very-well-stocked design library.

We met writers, designers and creative directors. We got a sneak peek of all sorts of fantastic products about to launch. We had a great time. Bonus for me: getting to spend one-on-one time with Olive. She is the perfect travel companion.



It's hard not to love a company that demonstrates so much dedication to all things creative. And serves Kansas City BBQ for lunch. Thank you Hallmark!

Want to know more? You can see pics here and here. You can see what was said on twitter here.

Modern Homes in Denver

My friend Enoch send me links to some modern neighborhoods in the Denver/Boulder area. They have me so inspired! From what I can tell, there are 3 main districts that are completely filled with these mid-century homes — Arapahoe Acres, Krisana Park and Lynwood Park — and it looks like these neighborhoods have been kept up immaculately. Very impressive. A well-preserved, historic neighborhood makes my heart go pitty-pat.

You can see lots more photos on the ModMidMod blog. And you can find out more info on these neighborhoods here and here. Also. If you know anyone renting out one of these beauties, please let me know.

Just out of curiosity, do these homes appeal to you? I'd say that 10 years ago, they wouldn't have appealed to me at all. And on the East Coast, they still wouldn't fit in very well with the hundred year old neighborhoods. But I do love their look in Denver. What do you think? All photos by Tom Lundin.

Staten Island Ferry

I hope you will indulge me as I report on more of our last-month-of-adventures-in-New York. On Saturday, we made a trip to the very southern most tip of the island. It was time to say our goodbyes to the Statue of Liberty. I'm not sure if it could have been any windier. But it didn't matter. The views from the Staten Island Ferry — of the Statue and the downtown skyline — are incredible. I think it's my favorite free activity in the city.

After our ferry ride, we picked up lunch at Shake Shack. It was supposed to be our farewell to Shake Shack as well, but the food is just too darn good. We decided we needed at least one more visit before we move.

Winner — $300 Shopping Spree at Peek...Aren't You Curious

Thank you to everyone for making Ask-Design-Mom-Week awesome. I mean it. I loved reading your responses and learning from your advice. Thank you for sending in questions. Thank you for answering questions. And thank you for spreading the word. I can't wait to do it again in a few months.

But now, it's time to announce the winner of the $300 Shopping Spree to Peek...Aren't You Curious. Send a big, virtual congratulations to:

jack, lucy and finn, who said, "linked your wonderful blog on mine (may have gushed a bit about you as well... hope you don't mind...)"

You are the big winner! Yay you. And yay for Peek.

Home Again

Hey there. Did you miss me? Because I missed you terribly. Two days without internet time is the exact way to make me crazy. Why no internet? Really it was just a case of bad timing. I was on a trip to Kansas City with Olive to visit the Hallmark headquarters. (It was a great trip. Pics are coming.) Whenever I was in a place with internet access, I didn't have time to use it. And whenever I had time, I didn't have internet access. It happens.

But I'm back. And ready to blog. Content and more content is on it's way.

Martha Stewart Show

On Tuesday I attended the taping of the Martha Stewart Show with my friend Megan. Did you get to see the episode? It was so good! I didn't want the filming to end because we were so thoroughly entertained.

Highlights:
-Rosie was brilliant and super funny.
-Martha was gorgeous in skinny jeans and super tall heels.
-Alexis disagreed with her mother as often as she good — luckily Rosie was an excellent mediator.
-We had terrific seats — on the front row, directly across from the craft section of the studio.
-We got to chat about crafting with Rosie during a commercial break.
-We got to chat with Martha about dyeing wool after the show.
-And we got a whole bag full of freebies — Martha glitter, a Dremel Glue Gun, a Munny doll, a Michaels gift card and Martha's amazing new Encyclopedia of Crafts. Sweet!

Afterwards, we stopped for lunch at Chelsea Market. And I have to say, you can't really beat a day like that.

Ask Design Mom: Swingset Commemoration

Question:
Hi! For my four year-old son's birthday (it was today!), we asked our parents and siblings to donate $ to a swingset for our home. I would love to have a sign or something near the swingset that would mark the occasion and who the gift was from. Any ideas? — Misha


Answer:
Happy Birthday to your son, Misha! I think creating something to mark the gift is so smart. My instinct is to go for a classic plaque — the kind you would see on a park bench or beneath a special tree. Head straight to your local trophy shop and tell them what you're looking for. They'll be able to suggest the best options — possibly something that could be attached directly to the swingset. How would you commemorate this gift, Dear Readers?

Swingset image here. Win a $300 shopping spree from Peek? Find out how here.

Ask Design Mom Week: Sew in Labels

Question:
Hi Gabrielle! I am new to sewing and I am loving making special gifts for friends and family. I would really like to have some sew-in labels made to attach to my gifts but I am having trouble finding a good source that is reasonable for the home sewer. I am a graphic designer, so I could design the label myself, but don't know how to have it made. Thanks for your help. — Marcy



Answer:
Oh my Marcy. Now that you mention it, I think I want some too. I did a quick google search and it looks like there are lots of options out there, but having never placed an order for these, I'd love to hear some feedback first. Dearest Design Mom Readers, do you have any trusted sources on custom sew-in labels?

Did you know you could win a $300 shopping spree from Peek? Find out how here.

Ask Design Mom Week: Caring for Curly Hair

Question:
Hi Gabrielle. I'm really enjoying your Ask Design Mom week, and I have a question for you. What products do you use for your hair? Your curls always look beautiful, and I love that you wear it curly and don't get it blown straight all the time. I also have curly hair and am always looking for product suggestions. Thanks, and good luck with the move. — Emily



Answer:
Hi Emily! Thanks for the hair compliments. I feel like I'm having a hair crisis right now, so I appreciate the positive feedback. My haircare has been heavily influenced by the book Curly Girl. I don't follow their instructions exactly, but I have adopted many of their guidelines. Two that I use daily are:

1) Pile on the conditioner. I use a light shampoo very infrequently, and then a heavy conditioner very frequently. Any thick conditioner will work. I leave it on in the shower for a few minutes. Then rinse it out. After I've towel-dried my hair I put in more conditioner, mixed with gel, and leave it in. On a particularly frizzy day, I might scrunch my dry hair with even more conditioner throughout the day.

2) Get rid of your brush. When I'm wearing my hair curly, I never brush it. I keep a wide tooth comb in the shower to work the conditioner through, but I don't brush.

What about you Fellow Curly Girls? Do you have any favorite haircare products or haircare tips?

Images of curly haired peeps from Bumble & Bumble. Win a $300 shopping spree from Peek? Find out how here.

Homemade Cherry Pie

I just finished my 3rd piece of pie. I had one after dinner last night. One as a late night snack. And another for lunch today. The pie is so good. Cherry. Not weirdly-artificial-from-a-can-cherry, but real, sour cherry. With a buttery crust. Cherry pie is my favorite.

Yesterday after school, my friend Sherry came by with her kids. And she brought us this whole gorgeous pie. I couldn't have been happier. I love afternoons spent with Sherry. We send the kids to the trampoline and then we talk about everything and anything that comes to mind. Kids and marriage and school and moving and photography.

I would ask Sherry for the recipe, but I know she's one of those bakers that adds a little of this and a little that and doesn't really keep track. So I took some photos of the gorgeous pie instead. So that I will remember her kindness when I'm far away.

Ask Design Mom Week: Kitchen Throw Rug

Question:
Hi Gabrielle. I am trying to find an affordable, cute, fun, bright rug to put in kitchen? Any ideas where to look? Thank you. — Courtenay



Answer:
Hi Courtenay. Great question. I go through phases where I'm using kitchen throw rugs and not using kitchen throw rugs. When I'm in a using phase, I prefer something smallish that I can easily throw in the washing machine. My favorites are the 2' x 3' rag rugs that I pick up at Target and Ikea. Very inexpensive (under $5 each). And they come in such fun mixes of color.

What about you, Dear Readers? Do you use kitchen rugs? Where do you find yours?

The rug pictured is called Cleo. It's more expensive than I would use as a kitchen throw rug, but I thought the photo was good. And I would love this rug elsewhere in the house. Also. Did you know you could win a $300 shopping spree from Peek? Find out how here.

Ask Design Mom Week: Fabulous Bedding

Question:
I love your styles so I was hoping you could give me a few references for bedding for my room. I've waited for a while to feel like I could spend money on bedding so I want it to be fabulous. Thanks. — Ashley



Answer:
Oh my. New bedding is the perfect springtime purchase, Ashley. And there are so many pretty options out there. I love the luxurious offerings at Serena and Lily. The Marimekko patterns at Crate & Barrel are lovely. I always have a wonderful time browsing the bedding at Anthropologie. And I'd take one of everything that Dwell Studio offers.

Where have you spotted fabulous bedding, Dear Readers?

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Ask Design Mom Week: Thank you/Welcome Gift

Question:
Gabrielle, I have been reading, enjoying and learning from your blog for a little over a year now and was hoping you could help me. I was elected as the new President for my sons preschool and will be taking this adventure with seven other wonderful, amazing women whom I want to greet, encourage and thank for joining together to make our school a better place.

I need gift ideas that are super cool and useful but on the less expensive side as I do not want to spend a ton. If you have any ideas or links you could send my way I would really appreciate it. I am a graphic designer so do it yourself projects would work too. Thank you for any help or direction you may give. — Jennifer



Answer:
I love your question, Jennifer. There are always great suggestions in the comments whenever the topic is gifts — so many thoughtful ideas. Since you'll be working with these women, my first thought was pretty office supplies. Specifically, I was thinking of the decoupaged clipboards I made for my daughter's birthday party favors. I made mini ones, but you could make full size ones for the grownups. A great DIY project and very inexpensive. Plus they're practical and useful. You can find instructions at Martha Stewart.

What about you, Clever Readers? What would you give as practical, super-cool, inexpensive gift?

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Kirtsy Contest

Hey cute girls. Three Bissell Vaccums are up for grabs over at kirtsy. That's right. Three!! To enter, all you have to do is leave a comment about something good on the kirtsy blog. Only 19 comments so far...

Design Discussion

Last week, I attended an event put on by Slate and VW — a discussion of What is Good Design Now? with panelists: Paula Scher, Ahmad Sardar-Afkhami and Jonathan Adler, Moderated by Adam Gopnik. A few of the topics that were brought up: the Tropicana redesign, cars, the current increase in design awareness among the general population, and the Coke, Pepsi and Obama logos.

It was held in the Museum of Arts and Design auditorium, with a reception following on the 7th floor, where there were perfect views of Columbus Circle. I couldn't get enough of the discussion. I wish it had been twice as long. The whole event was beautiful. It made me happy. I wanted to speak one-on-one with every member of the audience. And I have to say, Paula Scher is so knowledgeable and has such respect for her field, I could listen to her talk about design all day long.

You can see excellent pics from the event here. You can see video of excerpt of the discussion here.

Also. Do you think about design more often today than you did 5 years ago? What do you think is Good Design Now?

Ask Design Mom Week: Custom Self-Inking Stamps

Question:
Hi Gabrielle. I was wondering if you know of any places to buy self inking address stamps that are a little more original than the typical ones you buy at office supply stores. I've seen some great rubber stamps on etsy but would prefer self inking so that I don't have to mess with an ink pad every time I use it. Thanks for any suggestions! — Alicia



Answer:
Oh. I love self-inking stamps, Alicia. They are so satisfying to use. I only own one. But I love it. It's made by Three Designing Women and the customization options they offer are nearly limitless — which means you can get exactly what you're looking for. What about you, Dear Friends? Do you use self-inking stamps? What's your source?

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Ask Design Mom Week: Crib Bedding Pattern

Question:
Hi Gabrielle. I am having baby #3. My mom has volunteered to make the baby bedding for me… HOORAY! She is a wonderful seamstress, but has never tackled crib bedding. We could probably make up a pattern, but just to be 100% on the safe side, I would love to find a good sewing pattern to use as a guide. Any ideas where I could find a good pattern to follow? Or any seamstresses out there want to share their own with me?? Thanks so much! — Jacci



Answer:
Preparing for a new baby is delightful, Jacci. Congratulations! I'm going to leave this answer to the sewing experts that might be reading. Dear Readers — especially you expert seamstresses — will you please direct Jacci to your favorite baby bedding sewing patterns?

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Ask Design Mom Week: Good Looking Baby Walker

Question:
Hi Design Mom. I'm at my wits' end trying to find a baby walker that's not all plastic and blinking lights. My taste runs more towards BabyBjorn/Stokke/Sven than Fisherprice, but I haven't been able to find a thing. Thanks for your help! — Amy



Answer:
Hi Amy. This is a great question! Here are two of my favorites. Radio Flyer makes a retro-classic walker/wagon — complete with storage space for blocks and teddy bears. And Plan Toys makes a woodpecker walker that is as charming as can be. (image via Inhabitots)

Dear Readers, what walkers would you recommend to Amy?

Last Month in New York

I can't thank you enough for the encouraging comments about our move. Really, truly. With every comment I read, I get more and more excited for this new adventure for my family!

To finish up our New York era with a bang, we've packed our calendar with as many fun outings as we can manage. For example, after church on Sunday, we took a drive to the Long Beach so we could wave goodbye to the Atlantic Ocean — who knows when we will see those waters again? It was foggy and beautiful and we had the beach entirely to ourselves. It was a perfect afternoon.




To get a peek at what we'll be up to the rest of this month, you can take a look at our calendar (click on it to enlarge):

April Fool's Day

Things that went down at out house before 8:00 this morning:

-When I opened my bedroom door, a cup of water splashed down on me.
-The cold cereal had been switched (when my son poured a box of Crispix, Cheerios came out instead).
-There was cream cheese in the toothpaste tubes.
-When I tried to put on my sneakers, I found them stuffed with paper.
-Sugar came out of the salt shaker.
-The milk was dyed blue.

Apparently, my kids woke up an hour early and did all this while Ben Blair and I slept. Because they are awesome. I have a feeling I'm not finished discovering their surprises. I hope you're enjoying April Fool's Day as much as my family is.